@y0ngsheng: EP 78 treat everyone with kindness, the strangers, the passers-by, and the ones around you #foryou #kindness #advice #patience #perspective

Joe Tan 🧸 :

i once told myself this. "you have the power to hurt people. so use it on those who deserve, why do so to your beloved?"

qaii💕 :

This is so true, I'm ashamed that I've treat my family like this, but once I realized what I did this past few years.... I want to change and now I have better relationship with them, Alhamdulillah, I really think more people should really hear this and really gave it a chance and try to treat the people we love and matter the most kindly, thank you so much, for sharing this and making this meaningful vid, I really love all your talks and I hope life is great and treating you kindly too

jenolee :

sometimes it’s literally a self-defense response. if you grew up with parents who were constantly scolding you or weren’t very affectionate, your brain can associate them with stress and automatically go into fight-or-flight around them. so you might get irritated with them over things your friends could do without bothering you. it doesn’t necessarily mean you love them less, it can be a learned response.

traveller :

true, but parents do hurt their own children before hence this type of character and attitude born. not due to jus patience.

Cazzerole :

idk why hearing this in chinese makes me more emotional

ZHTHESECOND :

we think ,relationships with strangers are much more fragile, while we already see our family everyday

Brocah :

the more you think you know, the less you know them. keep that in mind and we will be more tolerant

shanice :

this made me do some self reflection. I hope i manage to grow the same way you have. thank you for this reminder ❤️

eleanorpehpx :

yup sometimes I wish they were divorced Idk why do I have such thoughts

MoeyMode :

What your describing is displacement in psychology. You take out your anger, frustration ect on “safe” people that you love. You are actually redirecting your anger and frustration out on them. You really need to address the stressors which is the source of the frustration.

👽 :

真的!

*.ﾟsóyutsukii :

对咯

mr elastic :

谢谢兄弟

十一 :

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MAGGIEMEE :

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[Perfect score].

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