Why do they want their father’s or grandpa’s life? Are they gonna work in a factory for 12 hours a day? There were no hours of video games back then that they could hide in a room to play. Those men fix things & knew how to fix things without watching youtube. They fixed cars too.
2026-09-18 14:01:11
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Cute_Kawaii_Octopi :
I expect a man to be as globally competent as I am. If he thinks that’s too much, then let him be weak alone 🤷♀️
2026-09-18 17:13:08
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Elizabeth Silvers :
I think the first time I actually saw a real true smile on my grandmother's face was about 5 years after Grandpa died, her then boyfriend bought her a dozen red roses - that's all it took🥺
2026-09-18 16:09:21
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Phoenix Craig :
women are now expected to do all the physical stuff without losing all the emotional stuff. men are still only being asked to do the same. women get more to do and more to learn and just step into it...men still stuck in historical times
2026-09-19 10:14:18
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Tanner Johnson :
Not only is it healthier for the relationship, it’s healthier for the man personally. You are a healthier person when you can communicate and feel your feelings. There’s a reason why men back then were all secretly struggling, self-medicating, abusing, etc.
2026-09-18 13:05:10
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Kat :
our grandmas and mothers tell us not to get married or always have money saved
2026-09-18 19:15:05
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Christa :
Both sides of my grandparents didn’t sleep in the same bed when I knew them. So I never saw them having a romantic connections at all.
2026-09-20 19:58:28
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lllevaux :
The reality is that this is the market. Women grew and leveled up, do the same or get left behind. You either make yourself desirable in the current market, or you don’t get chosen.
2026-09-18 17:45:55
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Sunny Dinosaurs :
just because you didn't see your grandfather do it doesn't mean it didn't happen. My grandfather was a no nonsense grump who failed out of college because he was spending so much time traveling to visit my grandmother when they were dating. And he wrote her love letters expressing his feelings in words too.
2026-09-18 14:56:35
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Diane_ish :
this felt very Simon Sinek - loved it!
2026-09-18 15:32:51
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StarlightFrequency :
the audacity for asking for a whole human and partner to show up
2026-09-18 13:34:25
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ASPECT :
making your partner happy should be enough reason to do something good
2026-09-20 02:00:56
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Imposter Cloud :
I love this
2026-09-20 08:09:20
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sebgoose :
“What do you mean just going to work isn’t enough?” Bc it’s a job. Everybody HAS to work dude
2026-09-18 15:32:32
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Tîã🫠 :
“My grandfather didn’t have to be all emotional” and hey our grandmothers always walked on eggshells and had to guess their emotions. They lived in emotionless marriages and were forced to smile for it
2026-09-19 04:32:36
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Atia Gen ❌ :
my grandfather gave my grandmother emotional safety. after she died he was lost. even at 27 years later. they had a good connection. it was really sweet to see when I was growing up. but I also saw the other side with my own parents. my dad never gave emotional stability to my mom and my mom suffered greatly for it.
2026-09-18 15:45:54
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Battleaxe Banned :
I'm 75 and my Dad was born in 1924. He was a good husband and father. He gave my Mom his whole paycheck, cleaned and parented well. He wasn't much of a cook but we ate his fried bologna sandwiches with relish. He could and did fix everything, could build anything and, yes, my brother spent hours holding the light while he worked on the cars. He was articulate, intelligent and spent zero time lying on the couch
2026-09-18 19:00:26
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cnlch :
Emotional✖️Emotional Intelligence ✔️
2026-09-18 21:02:10
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TiaRio21 :
the physical stuff : lol. riding on a mower once a week😂
2026-09-18 20:26:21
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Auntie Heather :
expectations for men too high LOL
I do plenty of "physical" tasks at work and at home
2026-09-18 17:21:13
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Shongshong :
Louder
2026-09-18 13:03:43
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