For real. Gigi Hadid can wear sweatpants and she’s a fashion diva, doing that as a 3X I already know how bad the comments would be.
2026-09-18 21:48:57
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bouillonaire.bb :
Truth! I think everyone is treated better when they are “well presented”, but the difference as a large woman is crazy. It’s been part of my own healing to be OK with being dressed down/no makeup.
2026-09-18 16:12:25
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Natalie Herrera :
Girl thankyou for being an inspiration. I want us to love ourselves and be confident
2026-09-27 15:59:11
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Ria!! :
such a beautiful essay!!
2026-09-18 16:24:35
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Jen Wilder :
When the barrier is healthcare, when the gamble is invisibility, when you have to mitigate how much judgement and mistreatment you can endure to receive care it’s not made up! It’s life altering and it’s literally drilled into every person you encounter…I see you and feel you one thousand percent 💘
2026-09-20 20:56:43
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JosivanKit :
I feel this way too much… Not going out without makeup and „good“ clothes. I allowed myself some years ago to not be that all the time, it feels freeing, I wear oversize hoodies and sweatshirts and sweatpants… but this is still there so much, so so much. Because… it should not be a Bad thing. Or a freeing feeling
2026-09-25 18:52:01
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teanilrac :
EXACTLY 👏🏽 I always ALWAYS have to look put together
2026-09-18 23:28:31
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leedsann :
girl, me too and this made me cry. I didn't articulate it for a long time, but at 55 the points in my life where I've been smaller have taught me that lesson.
2026-09-18 16:14:22
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JustVannie :
I stopped caring 🤷🏿♀️. The world is way too big and life way too short to waste my energy on how others view me 💯
2026-09-20 02:24:25
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Donnie :
you look so beautiful
2026-09-20 14:38:45
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HayleyHerms :
AMEN
2026-09-20 20:05:48
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Mariana Franco :
💖💖💖
2026-09-18 20:41:12
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Nicksmomjmd :
I think, while your writing is spot on and likely has been a hard realization at different times in your life, these thoughts are not new or profound or helpful to anyone, really. Obesity doesn’t change who you are until it does; I don’t believe anyone is meant to be obese, just as no one is meant to be addicted to drugs, alcohol or other limiting behaviors.
2026-09-26 16:26:17
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