@mind_yourboundaries: Part 1 of 4: what are your feeling and thinking right now? And did you catch the line everyone else seemed to miss? Psa - This story was shared on a public forum. This video series is for education only. Not meant to be a take down or replace advice or treatment from licensed professionals. The opinions shared are mine. #boundaries #nocontact #mil #grandparents #storytime
As a grandchild, if you don't like my mom then u don't like me.
2026-09-18 19:54:22
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Krysa :
"controlling" but then proceeds to describe all healthy and reasonable boundaries
2026-09-18 19:09:46
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Lora Walker :
when she gave birth to OUR grandchildren. ✌️
2026-09-18 17:02:06
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Dawn Anderson :
Sounds like the DIL and son set some firm boundaries. Bravo to them.
2026-09-18 15:58:25
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Bethybob :
no relationship with me = no access to my children
2026-09-18 21:35:20
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user370434797699 :
The calling before you come over. That’s a hard boundary for me I loathe the random drop in. I’ll hurt your feelings.
2026-09-18 16:38:30
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MrsJ ❤️🤍🫐 :
You took them to court, they’ll never speak to you again.
2026-09-18 17:15:10
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Siobhán Beatson :
Barb?....is that you?
2026-09-18 17:14:54
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Deanna Marie :
Why is it that when a couple sets boundaries together the spouse always gets blamed? The couple set boundaries and the mother-in-law blames the daughter-in-law immediately as if the son can’t think for himself.
2026-09-18 19:45:25
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NotKimpossible :
Guess what? If your son wanted a relationship with you, he would. It’s not her.
2026-09-18 17:02:40
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kim r💙💜💚💛🧡🩷 :
As a mother-in-law, I’m 1000% team daughter-in-law.
2026-09-18 20:58:33
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herefortheparty5x :
As a grandmother, these were basic requests that you should be following anyway.
2026-09-18 17:40:56
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lg_243 :
"we refused to go along with the way SHE wanted things." is the line that stuck out to me. Sorry grandma, they're HER kids, you gotta play by HER rules.
2026-09-18 21:00:02
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NyxHiker Girl :
So mom set boundaries and grandparents didn't like them
2026-09-18 16:29:29
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Sarah Tonin 🇨🇦 :
All reasonable boundaries. Insane to try to hire a lawyer to force your will upon them.
2026-09-18 19:19:49
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cait.renee :
It’s the way she says “delivering our grandkids “like her being a grandparent, supersedes her son and daughter-in-law being that child’s parent
2026-09-18 17:07:52
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Gibby :
I didn’t even need the story. I knew the MIL was in the wrong from the get go. “Do I need a relationship with my DIL..?” Absolutely yes.
2026-09-18 16:00:39
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lethomps418 :
I soon as you said grandparents rights I knew
2026-10-31 19:19:55
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Chunky yet funky :
“Our daughter in law is very controlling and I’M the only one allowed to be controlling”
2026-09-19 19:31:36
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AlexandraP0416 :
All I heard was my my my. My son, my grandkids etc. She sounds possessive and controlling. Good for the daughter in law for sticking firm to boundaries.
2026-09-18 16:47:53
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Nunyabiz :
Mil is absolutely the problem. The son, bless him for sticking up for and supporting his wife. To answer her question: yes! You cannot love your son and grandkids and hate your dil. You don’t have to like her but you do have to respect her. This lady doesn’t respect anyone
2026-09-18 16:28:29
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DaniCB :
Delivered OUR grandkids.
2026-09-18 17:49:48
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~Hannah~ :
"controlling" and it's just normal valid boundaries lmao
2026-09-18 18:46:27
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KrisT :
Who is controlling?
2026-09-18 16:21:00
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Bill :
Those boundaries are not “controlling.”
2026-09-19 13:11:08
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