@zachmentalloadcoach: Love this math breakdown 👏 I hear this argument all the time. “She didn’t contribute anything.” If you had to replace a stay at home parent with a nanny, housekeeper, chef, driver, and tutor, you are easily looking at six figures a year 💰 And that does not even include the career momentum she gave up so you could build yours. You cannot benefit from the setup for years and then act like it was a solo effort. Marriage is not just about who earned the money. It is about who made it possible. Facing these scenarios? Follow to learn how to show up as a thoughtful partner! Original video: @ocfamilylaw #stayathomemom #mentalload #emotionallabor #relationshipissues #relationshiphelp #marriagehelp
I was a SAHM for 25 years. I filed for divorce. I got alimony for 12 years and half of his retirement.
2026-09-19 18:32:40
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bliblahbluh :
Men always act as if they would not have to work if they were single 🤷🏼♀️
2026-09-20 07:24:59
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Evelyn :
Stop getting married 👍
2026-09-19 13:51:53
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AskGenXer :
Yet the women out here still do BOTH
2026-09-18 21:47:28
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Malri :
“Worked so hard to earn” and it’s literally just having a job.
2026-09-19 00:56:25
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🔥Ruth 3:11 ⚔️ :
He TOLD me to stay home. He then THREW MONEY in my face a MERE YEAR LATER!!! Stay single and childless ladies!!!!🙏🙏🙏
2026-09-18 19:12:09
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@4961 :
Never give your financial independence for a man is not worth it
2026-09-24 11:45:02
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Dreamcorelover :
Don’t forget the 401k contributions that she missed out on as well.
2026-09-19 05:55:29
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mizzandrists :
Daily reminder: DON’T GET MARRIED LADIES
2026-09-19 22:16:24
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Loda 🇨🇦 :
a man is not a plan
2026-09-21 06:11:58
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user6096829066983 :
The law didn’t protect me, he stopped paying child support and spousal support, I sated home with the kids, cleaned , cooked, took kids to school activities etc. court didn’t care he knew judge and he’s attorney knew judge also
2026-09-24 01:02:35
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cronefluencer :
Surrogates cost a fortune too.
2026-09-19 10:01:43
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Wanderer Roam :
We can never get our youth or time back. Half a life can be spent sacrificing dreams and opportunities for the family, so a husband can build his career and provide. Those years and sacrifices are part of the family’s success, even if they are not always recognized.
2026-09-24 07:44:57
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ssm :
Personally I feel the biggest mistake I did was getting married I always regret that decision.
2026-09-23 13:00:56
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Daisy Jones :
What an upside down world when we think ✨going to a job✨ is harder than growing life, birthing life, and raising life
2026-09-19 10:44:58
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Powered by Starbucks :
Ask any working mother how hard it is to perform!! Very difficult.
2026-09-23 23:37:17
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Sylvia D :
Aman ♥️good word
it works for both and family
2026-09-23 17:25:41
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Iam2 :
They know all this. They are just cruel and wanting to leave their wives destitute.
2026-09-20 18:39:23
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🍉 alle 🍉 :
the fatherhood promotion and the motherhood penalty
2026-09-19 18:20:25
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Felicia Mannering :
Plus stay home mum doesnt get to save money for retirement or get pension. 😢
2026-09-19 09:00:09
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Jo Mey :
These men don't want a partner, they want gratis staff - don't marry abusive men!!!
2026-09-20 10:18:46
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DogMom RN Retired🌏 :
Stop getting married & having offspring. Single, my own home & company. Queen of My Universe
2026-09-21 01:58:14
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Lucy🇨🇦 :
Listen ladies, get an education, your own career and your own money.
2026-09-20 00:36:59
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Cara 📚🖋️💄🇨🇦 :
I am so thankful that my husband has always said it’s our money.
2026-09-20 17:07:54
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