@coach.ryan0: Their avoidance works beautifully..: because YOU keep doing all the emotional labor. You chase, explain, forgive, lower your standards, and call it “being understanding.” Stop making it comfortable for someone to neglect you. 🔥 #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipTok #SelfAbandonment
Avoidants will never cross any bridge to meet anyone halfway
2026-09-18 17:56:25
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Ramona :
I pray that God will punish him.
2026-09-18 16:39:42
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cozyyyytreezzzz :
I finally stopped. 25 years. Day 1. Wish me luck😳
2026-09-19 00:58:24
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Princess꧁🩵꧂Jasmine :
That is me … always begging him and apologizing to him
2026-09-21 12:13:24
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J O :
Stopped 15 months ago after almost 15 years 🦗🦗🦗
2026-10-09 06:13:11
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doggybottompatter🐕 :
I didn’t enable him. I didn’t give him access until he took accountability. But his actions didn’t change and neither did I. I worked on taking care of myself. What I found I was doing, however; I found that I was waiting for him, silently, hoping that he would make changes. And while I waited, during all that time, all those years, I starved. I felt like he was standing on my life line, cutting off my air supply. I’d ask him to leave so that I could breathe easy. I was dying. He thought it was just a mood that would pass. So now he’s staying with his mother because “she needs him”. And now he’s waiting for me, and guess what.
2026-09-18 18:34:05
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MamaB :
I’ve figured out how to not shrink, but not to stop chasing!
2026-09-18 21:36:12
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carmiewalsh :
I did! I have never been happier!💯
2026-09-18 19:26:05
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Anji :
What if we're both avoidants. It's a win win I think
2026-09-18 16:38:56
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Allison2866 :
This is the first time that I didn’t respond after he was very mean to me. And then a day after he wrote saying hey let’s meet up at the casino and have a four-day vacation never apologizing. It’s my first love. I know he’s not right for me, but I can’t let go. I need help I know.
2026-09-27 18:12:51
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Lono :
I’m avoiding the continuation of this marriage…so happy
2026-09-19 05:44:08
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Ricki :
So I have a question on this, my dismissive avoidant partner, and I have decided not to live together, but still work on the relationship. So is this actually feeding into his dismissive? Avoidant behavior was the wrong decision? Because he wants us to work on this while not living with one another is that even possible with the deceive.
2026-09-28 12:45:20
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❌MELBEL❌GENX❌ :
I CHASE NO ONE....EVER!!!
2026-09-18 20:59:25
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IrishCherokee_ :
Thank you. I need this advice. 😉
2026-09-18 18:22:44
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Sky :
Needed this
2026-09-18 18:19:52
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AlphaLimaSierra :
😳😳😳my bad
2026-09-18 21:19:24
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peaceandhappiness179 :
I'm getting it now.
2026-09-19 06:53:37
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Farmer :
💯
2026-09-21 19:03:24
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JEF_Tulum :
Yesterday my avoidant ex sent me a picture of my old drivers license that she discovered (again) in her purse. And asking me why she keeps it. I made a joke. But what should i think or seriously reply. She’s always like that. We broke up last year.
2026-09-18 22:20:36
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Beachgirl :
Mine refuses to cross the bridge folds his arm up and says if you wanna be with me, you’re gonna stay right here with me. 27 years and I’m tapped out.
2026-09-28 18:58:44
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DJ :
If you don’t they just rage at you
2026-10-09 16:04:26
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GypsyGal41 :
Yep
2026-10-11 17:22:46
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cnytkyln :
👍
2026-09-18 23:42:58
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I.Cespedes✝️ :
😔😔😔
2026-09-19 07:00:16
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