@coach.ryan0: Their avoidance works beautifully..: because YOU keep doing all the emotional labor. You chase, explain, forgive, lower your standards, and call it “being understanding.” Stop making it comfortable for someone to neglect you. 🔥 #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipTok #SelfAbandonment

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a763773
A is 4 Allah :
Avoidants will never cross any bridge to meet anyone halfway
2026-09-18 17:56:25
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somewhere.ramona
Ramona :
I pray that God will punish him.
2026-09-18 16:39:42
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cozyyyytreezzzz
cozyyyytreezzzz :
I finally stopped. 25 years. Day 1. Wish me luck😳
2026-09-19 00:58:24
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christinapixieprincess
Princess꧁🩵꧂Jasmine :
That is me … always begging him and apologizing to him
2026-09-21 12:13:24
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j.o491
J O :
Stopped 15 months ago after almost 15 years 🦗🦗🦗
2026-10-09 06:13:11
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doggy.bottom
doggybottompatter🐕 :
I didn’t enable him. I didn’t give him access until he took accountability. But his actions didn’t change and neither did I. I worked on taking care of myself. What I found I was doing, however; I found that I was waiting for him, silently, hoping that he would make changes. And while I waited, during all that time, all those years, I starved. I felt like he was standing on my life line, cutting off my air supply. I’d ask him to leave so that I could breathe easy. I was dying. He thought it was just a mood that would pass. So now he’s staying with his mother because “she needs him”. And now he’s waiting for me, and guess what.
2026-09-18 18:34:05
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foundmywings20
MamaB :
I’ve figured out how to not shrink, but not to stop chasing!
2026-09-18 21:36:12
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carmiewalsh
carmiewalsh :
I did! I have never been happier!💯
2026-09-18 19:26:05
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kamosh2009
Anji :
What if we're both avoidants. It's a win win I think
2026-09-18 16:38:56
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allison2866
Allison2866 :
This is the first time that I didn’t respond after he was very mean to me. And then a day after he wrote saying hey let’s meet up at the casino and have a four-day vacation never apologizing. It’s my first love. I know he’s not right for me, but I can’t let go. I need help I know.
2026-09-27 18:12:51
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tanksteven1
Lono :
I’m avoiding the continuation of this marriage…so happy
2026-09-19 05:44:08
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perpetual_collective
Ricki :
So I have a question on this, my dismissive avoidant partner, and I have decided not to live together, but still work on the relationship. So is this actually feeding into his dismissive? Avoidant behavior was the wrong decision? Because he wants us to work on this while not living with one another is that even possible with the deceive.
2026-09-28 12:45:20
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melbelgenx
❌MELBEL❌GENX❌ :
I CHASE NO ONE....EVER!!!
2026-09-18 20:59:25
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irishcherokee_
IrishCherokee_ :
Thank you. I need this advice. 😉
2026-09-18 18:22:44
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skylerbyte
Sky :
Needed this
2026-09-18 18:19:52
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alphalimasierra
AlphaLimaSierra :
😳😳😳my bad
2026-09-18 21:19:24
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peaceandhappiness179
peaceandhappiness179 :
I'm getting it now. 🫪
2026-09-19 06:53:37
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mytinyfarm57
Farmer :
💯
2026-09-21 19:03:24
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jf_in_tulum
JEF_Tulum :
Yesterday my avoidant ex sent me a picture of my old drivers license that she discovered (again) in her purse. And asking me why she keeps it. I made a joke. But what should i think or seriously reply. She’s always like that. We broke up last year.
2026-09-18 22:20:36
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swflbeachgirl
Beachgirl :
Mine refuses to cross the bridge folds his arm up and says if you wanna be with me, you’re gonna stay right here with me. 27 years and I’m tapped out.
2026-09-28 18:58:44
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dj641258
DJ :
If you don’t they just rage at you
2026-10-09 16:04:26
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gypsygal41
GypsyGal41 :
Yep
2026-10-11 17:22:46
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cuneytakyalin
cnytkyln :
👍
2026-09-18 23:42:58
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bezzebee
I.Cespedes✝️ :
😔😔😔
2026-09-19 07:00:16
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