if I make eye contact, I feel like i'm digesting their soul
2026-09-19 11:40:29
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Layan :
If im making eye contact im not listening 😭
2026-09-20 06:56:48
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grubba :
it’s easier to listen when im not thinking about which eye im supposed to be looking at 😭
2026-09-18 18:39:33
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AbigAEl :
It’s the audadhd for meee! I get distracted by trying to remember what lev of eye contact isn’t creepy
2026-09-19 18:20:00
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Mangorangoetang :
Me mid story just checking
2026-09-18 16:57:09
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Isaczin0_0 :
You look really pretty in glasses.
2026-09-18 16:54:14
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zaaaaach :
I always feel bad but I listen so much better like this
2026-09-18 19:48:47
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gigi :
“performative listener “ this is news to me, can we stop making new words for things! Paying attention to the person talking is part of listening, we’re just building horrible communication skills.
2026-09-19 11:41:29
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☆jade★ :
its not “performative” its active and engaging listening. its polite.
2026-09-20 16:31:43
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nipenthe :
i fear that's me
2026-09-18 16:46:04
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jade :
Active listening?
2026-09-19 16:08:57
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Anon :
#neurodivergent
2026-09-19 16:22:42
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The last squ!rt-Bender, Nash💋 :
Your laugh is honestly so cute
2026-09-22 20:45:44
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elle :
if I look them in the eyes I can't hear the words well for some reason, I do sometimes look at their lips, or their hands it's easier to hear the words that way
2026-09-20 11:47:50
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okay :
Where are your glasses from ? They’re so nice
2026-09-20 18:57:55
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I LOVE MY GF :
Im always listening just hate eye contact
2026-09-19 13:39:30
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CorgiOfFire :
I have adhd. this is how I live [Tears of joy]
2026-09-18 18:49:29
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c7brpunk :
I hate looking at people’s eyes while listening
2026-09-20 18:09:03
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Jas :
why isn’t this socially acceptable😭😭 pls
2026-09-19 17:32:29
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ray🦇 :
the best way i can describe it is peoples faces distract me LMFAO. if im looking at you while you're talking im trying to decide what eye to look at, im analyzing your facial expressions, im watching your lips move. def not paying attention to what was said lmfao
2026-09-21 01:26:08
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3den :
she has adhd your honor
2026-09-20 05:05:01
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annaFake :
Idk i concentrate better when i look around, it’s like im only focusing on sound therefore i’m really listening
2026-09-21 06:03:34
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Isabella◡̈ :
Hey its me
2026-09-19 20:16:12
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aღirafatiღa :
this is so real. i focus better when i’m looking everywhere else than at them
2026-09-19 19:12:50
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Nariscia :
Being attentive or having eye-contact with another person doesn’t mean you’re a performative listener and I actually hate that term. 🙄🙄🙄
2026-09-20 10:32:02
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