@juliaweilo: I promise i’m actually listening better when I’m looking away #nd @Mangorangoetang

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Friday 18 September 2026 16:41:28 GMT
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lukepatnode
EnderOfNightmares :
if I make eye contact, I feel like i'm digesting their soul
2026-09-19 11:40:29
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lkh1406
Layan :
If im making eye contact im not listening 😭
2026-09-20 06:56:48
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notgrubba
grubba :
it’s easier to listen when im not thinking about which eye im supposed to be looking at 😭
2026-09-18 18:39:33
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stephieabz
AbigAEl :
It’s the audadhd for meee! I get distracted by trying to remember what lev of eye contact isn’t creepy
2026-09-19 18:20:00
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mangorangoetan
Mangorangoetang :
Me mid story just checking
2026-09-18 16:57:09
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isaczin0_0
Isaczin0_0 :
You look really pretty in glasses.
2026-09-18 16:54:14
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rdiowaves
zaaaaach :
I always feel bad but I listen so much better like this
2026-09-18 19:48:47
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ge.novaturient
gigi :
“performative listener “ this is news to me, can we stop making new words for things! Paying attention to the person talking is part of listening, we’re just building horrible communication skills.
2026-09-19 11:41:29
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r4tb1rd
☆jade★ :
its not “performative” its active and engaging listening. its polite.
2026-09-20 16:31:43
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nipenthee
nipenthe :
i fear that's me
2026-09-18 16:46:04
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tinker.bug
jade :
Active listening?
2026-09-19 16:08:57
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user372936292633
Anon :
#neurodivergent
2026-09-19 16:22:42
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nashlovesbrats
The last squ!rt-Bender, Nash💋 :
Your laugh is honestly so cute
2026-09-22 20:45:44
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yspinky
elle :
if I look them in the eyes I can't hear the words well for some reason, I do sometimes look at their lips, or their hands it's easier to hear the words that way
2026-09-20 11:47:50
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koolaid76700
okay :
Where are your glasses from ? They’re so nice
2026-09-20 18:57:55
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alien_bongwater
I LOVE MY GF :
Im always listening just hate eye contact
2026-09-19 13:39:30
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corgioffire
CorgiOfFire :
I have adhd. this is how I live [Tears of joy]
2026-09-18 18:49:29
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c7brpunk
￴￴￴￴c7brpunk :
I hate looking at people’s eyes while listening
2026-09-20 18:09:03
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jasmintajan
Jas :
why isn’t this socially acceptable😭😭 pls
2026-09-19 17:32:29
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youwannakissmesobad
ray🦇 :
the best way i can describe it is peoples faces distract me LMFAO. if im looking at you while you're talking im trying to decide what eye to look at, im analyzing your facial expressions, im watching your lips move. def not paying attention to what was said lmfao
2026-09-21 01:26:08
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thats_eden
3den :
she has adhd your honor
2026-09-20 05:05:01
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annah__c
annaFake :
Idk i concentrate better when i look around, it’s like im only focusing on sound therefore i’m really listening
2026-09-21 06:03:34
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bella.laytonn
Isabella◡̈ :
Hey its me
2026-09-19 20:16:12
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amirafatima
aღirafatiღa :
this is so real. i focus better when i’m looking everywhere else than at them
2026-09-19 19:12:50
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nariscia
Nariscia :
Being attentive or having eye-contact with another person doesn’t mean you’re a performative listener and I actually hate that term. 🙄🙄🙄
2026-09-20 10:32:02
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