Grow with Kaela
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Friday 18 September 2026 17:11:23 GMT
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kerry.you.with.kindness :
They resent the ones they are responsible for. They are like a child who wants a puppy until they have to feed, walk and care for it everyday.
2026-09-18 17:20:02
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Deathrattle :
Realizing that you don't matter... is the part that breaks you...
2026-09-20 16:04:54
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user3459730280532 :
What do I do? It’s been 7 years and I am losing myself
2026-09-25 08:50:06
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saturnis.fbx :
Not everybody is meant for romantic love, and these types of people should stay away from those who are. Friendship,sure but not romanticism.
2026-09-18 20:31:38
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Christianlee777 :
Well, guess what now they can enjoy all the space they need. I’m out.
2026-09-18 20:37:25
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Emily :
Literally 🙄 everyone mattered but me… I ran and now she still wants access to me 😭
2026-09-18 20:55:32
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tortillatat :
And then making me a third wheel and prioritizing their bestie instead and treating me like I’m a convenience to them when they’re ready. no thank you
2026-09-24 20:10:18
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HankieErin 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸 :
So what do you do when this stage hits?
2026-09-19 01:14:00
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CondorWLM :
Ok so avoid this type. Got it
2026-09-18 22:00:31
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ErinInProgress :
Is this why my husband acts like a knight in shining armor for our daughter but not for me?
2026-09-18 19:45:36
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Stacey 🙃 :
my da distanced himself right out of access to me
2026-09-18 19:03:09
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David Bowers :
When a partner or close friend treats you that way, exit stage left. Bye
2026-09-18 18:56:53
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Jaseman5000 :
We broke up! Back to the top I go! Like a human lava lamp. Yay! 🤮
2026-09-18 23:02:01
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Gonzalo Franco21 :
After 6 years of trying I finally gave up. They are waaaay too damaged to ever truly be yours.
2026-09-19 14:12:33
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MajestyInTheDark :
I hate to put it this way but.. it seems to be true: you don’t avoid people you feel nothing for.. you avoid people you feel EVERYTHING for.
2026-09-20 17:58:25
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StarkyKiepven :
It does help understanding their perspective. The action and feelings of them going silent still hurts. Especially when someone else has their attention. A roster of people, fulfilling their needs..
2026-09-19 11:21:29
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Marbie :
I was just thinking this exact same thing today..how I miss the person I first met 3 years ago. I want that version of him back 🥹
2026-09-19 03:28:00
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Michael :
I got rid of her, distance works really good for me now. I'm not anxious about her leaving anymore. 😂
2026-09-18 19:16:06
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user7308648454738. Gigi :
Yep ! My husband is so well loved by all for what he does . My own family don’t even believe that he betrayed me
2026-09-18 23:14:09
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paintedlady :
why do i get the worst version of him 😭
2026-09-18 20:55:15
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ForeverAFiasco :
Okay but [Snicker] what if I become avoidant
2026-09-18 18:03:58
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ruby :
So what do I do when I love him and I just want it to work
2026-09-23 19:31:40
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Mr.G :
this happened to me. And it hit me hard because I unfortunately have a somewhat of an attachment style that is anxious. So I chased and it got worse. So what I did was I practiced becoming more secure in my attachment style. And I started to match some of the energy. And let me tell you, everything shifted and flipped right back around onto my favor. They will protect their ego and self image at all times, don’t engage into it have a nonchalant attitude, and they’ll change. It’ll take time though. And it will change you too. Trust me they’re not going anywhere. And avoid it will never initiate the breakup. They’ll just starve the relationship first before anything. So starve it right back, respectfully, of course.lol
2026-09-23 16:20:29
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ccgq2021 :
Avoidant behavior is abusive behavior
2026-09-19 18:48:47
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A.J. :
I'm always last on her list.....below complete strangers and people who dont even like her
2026-09-21 01:14:32
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