only thing left out of that is him bringing his guitar and singing Wonderwall at you..
2026-09-18 18:22:16
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Tyla Does Beauty :
I would assume he’s sending the same thing to everyone
2026-09-18 20:45:57
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Kori :
That’s a date for in a relationship! Not a first date
2026-09-18 18:14:48
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Ash🌈🤘 :
As a lesbian, that is the perfect date. no way would I do that with a man though. lol
2026-09-18 19:47:49
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BeejRexer :
It’s giving..” saying what they think you WANT to hear”, which is already a red flag.
2026-09-19 12:38:28
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MAJ2000 :
I paused and read the message and it lowkey gave me the ick
2026-09-18 18:10:33
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Liv :
That’s too much time for a first date
2026-09-19 12:25:40
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Allissa Johnson :
It sounds like a message he sends to every girl!
2026-09-19 02:51:25
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Katelyn Tisdale :
In my personal opinion…when men lay out these superrr detailed dates that sound so picture perfect romantic, they are the types that just like the idea of a girlfriend (or have an unrealistic fantasy) and don’t care about actually getting to know the person. They’ll get bored pretty quickly and move on to romanticizing the next.
2026-09-18 18:08:34
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Nazaninsalahi :
Also note that he’s most probably sending that message to every girl he comes across so… no thank you
2026-09-18 18:10:19
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𓂀 𝐂𝐑𝐘𝐒𝐓𝐀𝐋 𓂀 :
I have lived this so I can speak from experience. This is the same guy that will pull out his phone to delete hinge in front of you on the second date and tell you he’s done searching and found what he was looking for. I know that sounds nice but this is someone that is about to steal your life.
2026-09-19 12:51:06
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Phanie_Steph_Lee :
That's 3-4 date energy. You're trapped if it's the first date and the vibe is off.
2026-09-18 18:09:36
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addie🖤 :
it’s giving
2026-09-18 20:20:26
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erin alise :
it’s a little love bomb-y
2026-09-19 12:09:20
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Emmy 🪩 :
A FIRST date should be low stakes, low stress. No obligation to spend a lot of time together. Shit I’d literally go on a walk and just talk to someone for a first date. I seriously don’t even want to go to a dinner for a first date. But that’s just me 🤷🏽♀️
2026-09-18 18:11:01
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Alycia :
This is something I would enjoy with someone I’m already dating. As a first date, it’s too much. Too much time, too many decisions to make in the moment, too many things that could go wrong, too much driving around together, too many moments when he would just suggest we “go back to his place.” 🙄 First date should ALWAYS be driving separate, meeting at one location, for a specific, easily accessible purpose (drinks, coffee, dinner, etc.).
2026-09-19 12:33:02
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Melissa :
Not first date vibes
2026-09-18 19:31:52
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q :
Not for first date. That’s too much I don’t know you stranger 😭😭
2026-09-18 18:22:08
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Cat :
Definitely not. First date you need to be able to easily gtfo within like 15-20 minutes. Bad date? Gulp down your wine and say bye lol
2026-09-18 18:34:29
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Meli :
For like the 5th date that’ll be fun! For the first date that’s doing too much
2026-09-18 18:08:34
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The C*nt-Fessional :
This is a love bomb sesh
2026-09-19 06:47:20
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sarah :
it gives hes gonna love bomb or trauma dump
2026-09-18 18:17:56
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blackrabbit.of.inle :
Never. Go. To. A. Second. Location.
2026-09-19 01:46:17
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am :
I honestly don’t mind the picnic idea. But that should be all it is. Hangout at a park with snacks and coffee. Meet there, chat, max 2 hrs. I appreciate the initiative tho!
2026-09-18 18:11:50
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Porch ᯓ★ :
a cyanotype print is actually insane it’s not a quick process and definitely not a first date thing LOL
2026-09-18 21:24:30
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