@mackenzieherman: Ghosting = relief. Time + distance = safety. And that’s when they return. #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyle #avoidantcycle #avoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment
never ever fucking ever! date avoidants.. Just discard them.. avoidant = childish and not worth for the time what you lose.. Avoidants are not suitable for relationship. at.. all..
2026-09-18 21:27:44
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Jitterbug :
why was he so mean? I don't get it, it's like kicking a puppy
2026-09-19 07:06:10
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user3240369544836 :
She went and found someone else lol
2026-09-25 04:45:18
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נוֹיָה🌀 :
They didn’t come back
2026-09-18 20:58:42
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itsnoxz :
But when do avoidants evolve into normal people
2026-09-19 07:47:46
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SK :
Now that person is under my radar!
2026-09-25 13:04:31
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morocla :
You are assuming they don’t have other options on the table. An avoidant is not going to reach that moment of missing you and reaching back out if they already have a roster they’ve been entertaining.
2026-09-18 23:33:31
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K-Lo 🌈 :
I really did think she was gone for good. I started dating someone new and six months later she was back. Told me she was sorry, that she missed me, that I’m the love of her life. A strange turn of events though because for the first time since meeting her, I told her no.
2026-09-18 18:31:27
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Andrew :
Got ghosted for a bit over a month. Didn’t chase, but she called me back randomly. Took “accountability” but now she’s sending me random updates about her day. Confusing af
2026-09-21 22:24:02
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meatball2637 :
it’s been nearly 3 weeks 😔
2026-09-19 01:47:15
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Rosa Maria Mule :
dont contact for clarity , match the silence. let Casper stay gone , because when Casper comes back he will leave again . Dont answer when Casper returns.
2026-09-18 22:16:01
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winnerwoman111 :
No, they don’t always come back, please dismiss this message, it’s been 4 years, I’m not waiting but recovering from this eff up on their part. God blessed me with someone new, who is helping me recover via love. Lose hope on your ghost, lose it fast. Let go don’t fantasize if they ever cared or not because they didn’t.
2026-09-20 00:40:42
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Shonna | Tarot Teacher :
yeah, I'm not accepting a lame "I'm sorry" again. I'm gonna need a full report of what they're sorry for and how much my friendship means to them. I'm done being the one doing all the work.
2026-09-18 19:45:32
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Mike :
When? It’s torture not reaching out. 😔🤦🏻♂️
2026-09-18 18:34:29
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Gabe :
move on guys you don’t want that kind of person in your life
2026-09-20 04:36:15
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Scott :
My advice…when they reach back out, don’t respond and move on with your life. You don’t need people in your life that leave you with open loops. I don’t want to be in relationships, where I am the only adult in the room.
2026-09-19 18:56:29
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Chrystal Fortune :
I blocked her immediately and forever
2026-09-19 02:06:32
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revenant :
He doesn’t deserve access to me.
2026-09-19 04:31:02
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Sarah :
I low-key just delete their number and moved on with my life cause I don’t got time for that bullshit
2026-09-20 00:12:45
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MINOU TË DU | in Middle East :
We don’t have time to lose with coward ppl lol
2026-09-19 01:32:22
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Nopeqm 🇨🇦 :
I wish I would have known before he came back again 🥺 my heart is now broken again…. And this time he said something very final to (what felt like) hurt my feelings to push me away fully
2026-09-18 21:18:23
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ClaireSF1 :
Well, what about them going out, meeting a new girl, ghosting you and still seeing that girl constantly…no silence to potentially think about the one left behind😅
2026-09-18 20:20:30
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Ipso.Facto :
nah bruh, you don't respond when they come back. Don't lower your self worth to accommodate someone one who didn't care enough about you to communicate properly.
2026-09-18 21:20:28
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🌕🌗🌘Lady J 🌑🌓🌙 :
My dismissive avoidant will never reach out again. I reposted three videos about dismissive avoidance and I know he stalks my TikTok‘s so there’s that. 🤣
2026-09-18 19:59:50
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