Low self esteem is a big deal. That’s one thing I wish I understood 15 years ago. Low self esteem breeds cheaters and men who will criticize you and tear you down because they hate themselves.
2026-09-19 00:16:16
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LeannaK :
this message resonated so much! I'm in my late 30s -still trying to date. And I recently came across a dude who described women as "shallow, self absorbed narcissists" on his Hinge profile. I got a hunch, and sort of a intuitive feeling, but ended up ignoring it because everything else on his profile checked my boxes. I thought maybe he's just tired of being played on the app. Who knows? I rationalized it and matched with him anyway. 3 weeks go by. Hes putting in minimal effort, hid the fact that he had a kid, and after I called him out, that resentment started turning onto me! He became condescending and dismissive. Called me names and made me feel crazy. OMG! I learned to trust that hunch. Stay away from resentful bastards that speak poorly of women early on! There is usually more hiding behind it
2026-09-20 16:34:45
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user9756065790154 :
Biggest deal ….. if she wants no intimacy
2026-09-22 14:26:19
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Dance_Dad :
As a guy listening to this, you nailed it. As a guy we would even think some of those big deals is weird from a guy perspective.
2026-09-21 16:49:12
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Mr_Sumo99 :
That's a good list.
2026-10-05 13:51:16
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dowagerofdarkness :
Money can change, but work ethic and financial habits don’t. If he’s broke because of one, or both, of those then that’s something to clock.
2026-09-18 23:14:00
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countryfarmer52 :
You do look good at 43 I have to say
2026-10-01 23:18:32
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larawritesmusic :
Number one really is a big deal
2026-09-20 19:28:40
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MJ :
Thanks for the great F'n advice 👌
2026-10-01 04:39:11
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Yesi :
💯. drop your skincare routine queen
2026-09-19 14:11:02
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Mandajoy :
I feel like you do have to pay attention to their closest friends. Birds of a feather. It’s always telling about who they are.
2026-09-20 15:01:06
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Nancy A. De Contreras 🦋 :
New Follower
2026-09-19 02:59:05
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DreamingOfLove :
These are def all deal breakers
2026-09-22 19:18:59
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Tabs :
I agree with all of these!
2026-09-18 21:22:59
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Justin :
Thank you for this! 💙
2026-09-21 17:19:23
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Aurora Mayorquin :
Period
2026-09-18 20:21:11
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amber lyn may :
This
2026-09-20 14:24:49
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Alan Hernandez26031 :
Good work!
2026-09-19 22:27:50
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Trish the Dish :
Yes queen
2026-09-18 23:47:52
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Kayla :
You are absolutely right about all these but #1 especially!!!!
2026-09-19 00:13:25
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dananasplit :
Can you elaborate on the romantic part? What if there is never romance or like he says things but you end up having to make reservations or plan it
2026-09-18 21:08:00
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Nancy A. De Contreras 🦋 :
I agree 💯 %
2026-09-19 02:58:50
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IFBB PRO SAM CUNADO🌐🇨🇺🇺🇸 :
Crazy you look 28 and I’m not trying to flirt or hit on you ! You just look great
2026-09-20 00:07:31
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𝑮𝒊𝒇𝒕𝑫𝒂𝒕 :
I agree
2026-09-19 01:33:00
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homesweetcottage :
Thank you
2026-09-18 22:25:51
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