@relationshipswithaly: You can’t force your partner to care about something just like you do. And, if you’re the partner who just doesn’t care about the thing as much, it’s never helpful to dismiss your partner’s very real concerns and experience. Get curious instead of defensive. Remember that it’s you both against the problem, not you vs each other. Need help with this? Join over 1000 students in “TALK like you love each other” to break communication cycles like this one. Head to my link in bio for the first step. Disclaimer: IG is not therapy. This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. This content is not personally about the creator. THIS WILL NOT APPLY TO EVERYONE.
I want to feel understood and like they can see where I’m coming from so even if they don’t agree, they will consider my feelings going forward. I feel like if they are just so hell bent on making sure I know that they don’t agree rather than then coming from a place of understanding then I can trust that going forward they will consider what I want too. But if they don’t understand, then they will continue to do similar behavior. And I honestly feel like it is a choice to not understand most of the time because they don’t want me to think they agree.
2026-09-19 03:21:51
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Swaz87 :
The Lindsay Clancy divide in a nut shell
2026-09-19 15:35:05
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TickmarkMcGee :
I’ve been on both sides of this. It’s tough.
2026-09-18 23:08:30
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jeremys3036 :
I’m exhausted.
2026-09-19 11:54:37
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Warwick Hunt :
It matters to me because it matters to you.
2026-09-19 12:34:05
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Actions And Consequences :
I agree that we should absolutely ditch some people.
2026-09-19 12:57:25
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RandomGuy12345 :
Reality stopped the second they started apologizing and became a nice fiction
2026-09-19 15:10:58
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stang81 :
young men don't get married it is a cruel and painful life. focus on yourself. your money. your hobbies. don't be a paycheck who demands everything but puts no effort into you or the relationship
2026-09-20 15:19:38
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TheDerpKing :
*autistic screeching*
2026-09-19 23:15:54
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Andy.j88 :
She needs to heal
2026-09-21 21:28:43
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