Men and women should express appreciation for the things we do for each other. How is that controversial?
2026-09-19 18:35:41
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edwinjohnster37 :
Acknowledging good deeds is how they become common. Your story gives me hope that not all is lost
2026-09-19 07:08:52
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zhigghay :
Since when is it bad to acknowledge or show appreciation for an act of kindness? Just because it should be done more often or is considered "the bare minimum" doesn't mean it should go unnoticed. That's how "the bare minimum" becomes the norm, when those performing that act feel like it meant something to the other person.
2026-09-19 07:42:52
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Jennifer April 🇨🇦 :
acknowledging and thanking someone for doing a good thing encourages a repeat in behavior. however, acknowledgement and thanks for doing a good thing should not be expected. that does not mean we can not be thankful or grateful for someone being a good human.
2026-09-19 15:31:33
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Pansygirl21 :
Excellent post!
2026-09-19 16:58:14
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1/4 Pounder :
Going out of your way to help a stranger is not the bare minimum.
2026-09-19 15:55:05
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Charles Carter8340 :
it not that we want this type of this celebrated or thought of as this great grand thing. We simply wish to be acknowledged that we do it and women recognizes and somewhat appreciated it. that's all
2026-09-19 18:16:02
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kbrennan746 :
Awareness starts somewhere. The little things do add up. If you change one person, you have made a change.
2026-09-19 17:18:35
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kscharf122 :
It was more common. But we have been bashed for being creepy
2026-09-19 19:52:56
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Aaron Tau :
The fact is people treating each other with kindness in general should be the bare minimum. But we clearly live in a society where that isn’t the case and until it is we shouldn’t be shaming someone who publicly acknowledges it. The person making that comment missed the basic point of treating others with kindness.
2026-09-19 18:36:29
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DONOVAN :
wait. some people think this is bare minimum? damn LOL I personally think he went above and beyond.
2026-09-19 15:35:13
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Andrew :
yep. good ideas have to propagate somehow. word of mouth. media representation. personal examples. etc. although I maybe can understand how treating something as actually extraordinary can permit a sort of bystander effect where people permit themselves to do less or nothing hoping someone else can and will do the extraordinary thing
2026-09-19 15:24:18
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Jordan :
I think it’s great. Thank you for sharing the story. Reminds me to look for situations where I can help others.
2026-09-19 16:56:31
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Kayla Doe771 :
Agreed! sharing it will help make it more common. That person's thinking makes me sad.
2026-09-19 01:47:58
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Stone McShane🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ :
how people think that man's behavior is common is crazy to me! It should be common but unfortunately it is not!
2026-09-19 18:59:02
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CassianAndor :
I shared your video for that sole purpose. the bare minimum should be expected and made an example of. common courtesy is sadly rare. this guy was raised right.
2026-09-19 06:16:19
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Mister Rogers’ Mom :
Not the way I rushed to the other video as soon as you said “man waiting outside” expecting something entirely different because I had a more of a predatory experience and was saved by a train station employee. Almost 19 years later I appreciate Javier at the Ronda train station for keeping me safe.
2026-09-19 15:55:30
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carouselambra1 :
Why is just men can do things for women. Why not people doing things for people.
2026-09-19 06:22:37
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Nick🇨🇦 :
Yeah I saw that comment. I was going to say something but declined. I focused on how good it was and how you felt. It was a good choice
2026-09-19 03:06:37
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Allonu :
The person who made that comment is the reason everyone has the fk u attitude
2026-09-19 09:58:38
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erikh_tribebldr :
People always need to find a way to minimize others good deeds.
2026-09-19 17:22:51
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Chellebee72 :
I agree with you!
2026-09-19 05:40:53
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Christopher Hockenberry :
Sometimes it takes modeling the decent things for people to understand this is how everyone is supposed to be treated.
2026-09-19 14:49:39
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phil filer :
Please bring back your Fanhouse
2026-09-19 03:11:10
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WeThePeople66 :
Just like opening the door for someone -it’s just a common courtesy
2026-09-19 13:15:25
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