@haylinic: some school pickup line thoughts 🤔 how will people learn if the behavior isn't modeled? #healthymasculinity #storytime #humanconnection

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psydog
Carl :
Men and women should express appreciation for the things we do for each other. How is that controversial?
2026-09-19 18:35:41
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edwinjohnster37
edwinjohnster37 :
Acknowledging good deeds is how they become common. Your story gives me hope that not all is lost
2026-09-19 07:08:52
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zhigghay
zhigghay :
Since when is it bad to acknowledge or show appreciation for an act of kindness? Just because it should be done more often or is considered "the bare minimum" doesn't mean it should go unnoticed. That's how "the bare minimum" becomes the norm, when those performing that act feel like it meant something to the other person.
2026-09-19 07:42:52
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jennnlandreault
Jennifer April 🇨🇦 :
acknowledging and thanking someone for doing a good thing encourages a repeat in behavior. however, acknowledgement and thanks for doing a good thing should not be expected. that does not mean we can not be thankful or grateful for someone being a good human.
2026-09-19 15:31:33
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pansygirl21
Pansygirl21 :
Excellent post!
2026-09-19 16:58:14
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tps.report
1/4 Pounder :
Going out of your way to help a stranger is not the bare minimum.
2026-09-19 15:55:05
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cvec19
Charles Carter8340 :
it not that we want this type of this celebrated or thought of as this great grand thing. We simply wish to be acknowledged that we do it and women recognizes and somewhat appreciated it. that's all
2026-09-19 18:16:02
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kbrennan746
kbrennan746 :
Awareness starts somewhere. The little things do add up. If you change one person, you have made a change.
2026-09-19 17:18:35
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kscharf122
kscharf122 :
It was more common. But we have been bashed for being creepy
2026-09-19 19:52:56
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bigtau81
Aaron Tau :
The fact is people treating each other with kindness in general should be the bare minimum. But we clearly live in a society where that isn’t the case and until it is we shouldn’t be shaming someone who publicly acknowledges it. The person making that comment missed the basic point of treating others with kindness.
2026-09-19 18:36:29
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donovanwilliams942
DONOVAN :
wait. some people think this is bare minimum? damn LOL I personally think he went above and beyond.
2026-09-19 15:35:13
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androosayswhat
Andrew :
yep. good ideas have to propagate somehow. word of mouth. media representation. personal examples. etc. although I maybe can understand how treating something as actually extraordinary can permit a sort of bystander effect where people permit themselves to do less or nothing hoping someone else can and will do the extraordinary thing
2026-09-19 15:24:18
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jordanmclain801
Jordan :
I think it’s great. Thank you for sharing the story. Reminds me to look for situations where I can help others.
2026-09-19 16:56:31
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chaoticgoodwitch312
Kayla Doe771 :
Agreed! sharing it will help make it more common. That person's thinking makes me sad.
2026-09-19 01:47:58
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stonieman
Stone McShane🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ :
how people think that man's behavior is common is crazy to me! It should be common but unfortunately it is not!
2026-09-19 18:59:02
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cassian_andor48647
CassianAndor :
I shared your video for that sole purpose. the bare minimum should be expected and made an example of. common courtesy is sadly rare. this guy was raised right.
2026-09-19 06:16:19
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misterrogersmom
Mister Rogers’ Mom :
Not the way I rushed to the other video as soon as you said “man waiting outside” expecting something entirely different because I had a more of a predatory experience and was saved by a train station employee. Almost 19 years later I appreciate Javier at the Ronda train station for keeping me safe.
2026-09-19 15:55:30
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carouselambra1
carouselambra1 :
Why is just men can do things for women. Why not people doing things for people.
2026-09-19 06:22:37
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scoob10122
Nick🇨🇦 :
Yeah I saw that comment. I was going to say something but declined. I focused on how good it was and how you felt. It was a good choice
2026-09-19 03:06:37
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Allonu :
The person who made that comment is the reason everyone has the fk u attitude
2026-09-19 09:58:38
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erikh_tribebldr
erikh_tribebldr :
People always need to find a way to minimize others good deeds.
2026-09-19 17:22:51
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chellebee720
Chellebee72 :
I agree with you!
2026-09-19 05:40:53
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christopherhocken7
Christopher Hockenberry :
Sometimes it takes modeling the decent things for people to understand this is how everyone is supposed to be treated.
2026-09-19 14:49:39
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phil.filer
phil filer :
Please bring back your Fanhouse
2026-09-19 03:11:10
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wethepeople1792
WeThePeople66 :
Just like opening the door for someone -it’s just a common courtesy
2026-09-19 13:15:25
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