@thomathee: I don’t get it

Niikaverse :

yeah like, respectfully, stay away from me 😭

✨Madge✨ :

Yes and no. It really depends on where someone's perspective is coming from: is it grounded in the objective reality of their lived experience, or are they being negative just for the sake of it? That is a distinction a lot of people struggle to make, largely because society is conditioned to mistake raw honesty for pessimism. I follow a creator on here whose content isn't traditionally uplifting, but once you understand their background, it makes complete sense. There is a massive difference between reflexive negativity and someone simply refusing to perform fake optimism about a life shaped by complex, non-standard circumstances. Having been exposed to people from all walks of life while traveling the road, my immediate reaction to that kind of honesty isn't, "Oh, they're negative." My thought is, "They are being real instead of pretending that life is glamorized, easy, or beautiful for everyone.

Cla Cla :

I do, but that person is me unfortunately

𝔣𝔞𝔴𝔫𝔫ᶜᶜ :

some people are like that but others are just miserable, they dont want to be but they are bc of mental issues, u cant really turn it off..

xzabernn :

my mom fr

nessa |-/ :

luckily those are my inside thoughts and i try not to let it slip through

brianna12502 :

omgg yess like broo

mark_pritchett :

No bc not all of us can help it. It’s also their life not ours.

Washingtonrain :

some of these people are such negative a holes. You could be dealing with an issue that could be resolved simply and they will make it complicated, get insulting, and generally not be a friend. I don't need people like that around.

Rinnnono :

You can’t ask someone who has lived through a miserable life to suddenly be positive lol. If they could just choose to be positive, I’m pretty sure they wouldn’t want to be negative or miserable in the first place. But I guess it’s also their responsibility to heal themselves over time. Getting upset at them probably won’t help much, but you still have the free will to be upset with them.

K🧿 :

Sometimes people got bpd & depression however still enjoy life somewhat 🤘🏼

loly :

literally my ex

idk :

low-key the problem when it comes to that but I'm trying not to 😅

Artheart1023🦋🦊♠️ :

Negativity is like a cancer. It’s easiest to notice at work because you can love a place and be excited for a job and then you hear everyone spreading their complaints about it and it’s so much harder to ignore and combat

Belle’s Booktok :

When the world crumbles around you, you either crumble too or you rise from the wreckage and bloom

𝔗𝔰𝔲𝔨𝔦 :

my ex, and tried to make his miserable mindset the truth so mine wouldn't be so optimistic and according to him "unrealistic"

Liiiina😌🤘 :

every fuckin day

Intense Darkness :

Literally me to my sister

𝔄𝔰𝔱𝔞𝔦𝔯𝔦𝔞♥︎ :

t rex :

especially when they put it on their notes just to be the most upbeat person irl

Emma :

Miserable people are the ones who are always complaining. For one whole day, don't complain at all, don't even think it, and you'll feel the difference

Hannah1995 :

I do get pissed all the time when people are being negative

Denise🌧🍂📚🌻🥞💛📚🌧 :

Elisa :

i used to be like that, now people like that pmo

🖤Hailey🖤 :

YES! I would be so pissed at my ex for having such a negative mindset like WTH