@teresondupuy: They are giving the new partner the same broken version of themselves that you got. Why? Because changing partners does not automatically change patterns. If they have not done the work, the avoidance is still there. The defensiveness is still there. The fear of intimacy is still there. The inability to repair is still there. The same wounds are simply playing out with a different person. Maybe the new relationship looks calmer. Maybe it lasts longer. Maybe the other person asks less of them emotionally. That does not mean the pattern disappeared. It means the pattern found a new environment. So stop assuming someone else received the healed version of the person you were waiting for. If there has been no real inner work, accountability, or behavioral change, then the same internal architecture is still running the show. You take care of your own healing. That is the pattern you actually have the power to change. #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentStyle #Heartbreak #HealingJourney #InnerWork
So they never get their karma, ull say that their karma is never having connection but they're desensitized to that so it doesn't matter
2026-09-19 05:16:17
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chelseajayek :
but what if it's going back to their ex wife?
2026-09-20 13:36:09
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woke :
He did exactly that! He gave her everything I asked for!!!
2026-09-20 01:39:37
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Faves :
They did get more. Claimed on social media, integrated into family, vacation. Everything I begged for and she’s a model. I got gaslighting, abuse and he straight up used me.
2026-09-20 02:49:32
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Doreen Obrien :
YES FOR THIS IS TRUE THANK YOU FOR SHARING.
2026-09-19 21:13:24
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Graciela🌵🌻🇲🇽 :
but his been with her for almost a year 😒
2026-09-20 15:27:53
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Kayla :
Behavior is a language and it’s on repeat
2026-09-19 12:19:02
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Soul_Reboot :
I really don't even think they will get anything like I got, as a lot of the excitement came from me.
2026-09-21 14:02:54
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Brian :
How many times do they have to hurt good people before they stop and realize it's them, who is the common denominator to all the past failures. They are mentally unstable and need help which they may never get. Save yourself and walk away. 🙏🫂
2026-09-23 02:36:09
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lizreils :
I was just spiraling. I have to go to work in a few hours for a double shift. Keith her tonight and my heart is hurting
2026-09-19 06:35:16
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Karolina :
She got it already😂 it was quicker than with me. Yeah, now it’s funny for me, even though she’s probably crying like me a few weeks ago, but I know it will be a good lesson for her.🫶🏻
2026-09-19 21:25:20
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LINDA ROMAELLE :
Let them I don’t care
2026-09-19 21:17:08
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Georgette :
true ❤️🙏
2026-09-19 13:52:19
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Dancing with Nature 🌿 :
You're wonderful. Thank you 🙏🏻
2026-09-21 00:57:54
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✈️ :
impossible he barely goes out his only out was cinema no meals no dates nothing there is no way he would suddenly start going places etc we were young when we met now mid 30s any woman this age would see the red flags.
2026-09-19 08:01:22
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Maria Garcia :
so true
2026-09-19 12:30:08
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🫧Synthia🫧 :
Avoidants are mentally ill.
2026-09-20 01:30:23
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tomganzer205 :
new person is getting amazing times in the bed😎
2026-09-19 06:36:05
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itsmarios :
That man is empty. No one will ever get anything from him.Only pain,lies and manipulation
2026-09-19 06:10:04
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icantbebothered :
knowing she’s having sex just floors me
2026-09-24 02:57:29
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Cutie Pie 🥰 :
Nope he’s going to keep cheating on her & hold no accountability or responsibility 🙌🏻
2026-09-23 03:18:50
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Jenn🤙🌈🌍❤️🏳️🌈#WLW :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-09-19 12:06:46
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Sila :
🙏❤️
2026-09-19 07:14:28
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