@profahmedhankir: The Avoidant Can Discard You — But They Can’t Run Away From Themselves They may run away from you as if you were the problem. But what if they’re actually avoiding uncomfortable truths about themselves? Projection. Externalisation. Outsourcing accountability. An avoidant discard can leave you questioning everything—but removing you doesn’t remove the unresolved patterns they carry with them. Their avoidance is theirs to confront. Your healing is yours to reclaim. #AvoidantAttachment #AvoidantDiscard #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipTrauma #Healing

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chucks2198
Chuck :
I am an avoidant.. After a break up which destroyed me I promised myself to never let that happen again.. Trying to do the work on myself now.. To undo this.. it isn’t easy when you have to look inward instead of outward.. Yes I was always the problem…😢
2026-09-19 13:37:26
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keysinka96
Keysinka :
What does it mean when they used to watch my stories all the time and suddenly started completely ghosting me? This is 4 months after the breakup.
2026-09-24 21:53:57
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cavscout19d71
🇺🇸Ethnic American🇺🇸 :
They're Narcissistic Soul Thieves. They don't change. Run. Give yourself Grace. Don't Look Back
2026-09-20 13:29:41
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abbyyoungpowell
Abby Young-Powell :
P
2026-09-19 16:45:41
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synthiakayali
🫧Synthia🫧 :
I’ve been discard and I am now THE PHANTOM EX.
2026-09-19 22:39:52
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bellamissbee
Bella🐝Jabal❤ :
he discarded me and came back after seeing me moving. on ...he left many times they,always come back they,run away from their feelings
2026-09-19 17:16:38
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nonfiction333
nonfiction :
There is no such thing as avoidant, they simply don’t have interest in you
2026-09-19 11:51:29
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monummos
it’s Monika 🇵🇱🇬🇧 :
Am an avoidant and will drop you before my own fire burns me down. Not an easy life to live.
2026-09-19 10:02:19
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chookland_404
chookland_404 :
My DA husband for 23 years is moving out. His career isn’t going well and his father is having a health crisis. I told him I want no contact when he gets his space which isn’t what he wants and that this isn’t merely a pause, it’s also for me to heal and reflect. He said he doesn’t want this to be another resentment if we try to work things out. I stood my ground that there is no love without accountability. His actions are hurting me and I have the right to be angry but I’m choosing to be kind instead. I told him that this is about you not taking accountability for how you’re making me feel
2026-09-19 16:38:02
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hot.pocket13
KC :
I can't tell if I'm the avoidant or if my partner is. maybe we both are
2026-09-19 15:46:29
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dnise56
Dnise56 :
Asked me too marry him on Tuesday , then left on Thursday 🤷🏼‍♀️
2026-09-23 15:40:30
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motivational_rani
Happiness :
From an avoidant, we may run but doesn’t mean our hearts don’t hurt. 🙏
2026-09-19 17:42:15
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youssuf.ami
Youssuf Ami :
am left with 2kids it's been 3years bt still learning to love myself after the discard one 6months of no contact
2026-09-19 10:01:47
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bluesky_2512
Bluesky :
I understand, so it was never devastating
2026-09-19 18:34:53
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itsavicool
Avishan :
Unilateral 😂
2026-09-19 11:53:26
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veronica22384
veronica22384 :
They can kick rocks 😁😁😁
2026-09-20 07:36:05
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hoekjevanmichelle
✨️Michelle✨️✏️ :
The loop never ends.😢
2026-09-19 10:46:40
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beatlejuice701
Wild Leo ♌️ :
Pretty hardcore o well
2026-09-19 17:03:42
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somewhere.ramona
Ramona :
Brutal 😔
2026-09-21 18:47:18
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loveagig
L :
He ghosted me after 9 months together. He spoke to me the morning of the ghosting then just nothing. It’s now been over just over a month and I’m struggling to get my head around how he’s done this, I don’t understand how someone can do this to someone they apparently care about, it’s extremely cruel. Last time we saw each other everything was great nothing seemed off. He went away for a month and for the first 10-12 days all was fine we spoke a lot via messages but the last day we spoke he just stopped communicating and left my messages unread! I sent a message the day after he stopped and he left me on unread. I’m so confused. He’s now home from his trip away to his families. When he ghosted me he stayed offline for two days. Is this guilt of what he done? He hasn’t blocked me. Is this a good thing?
2026-09-20 07:35:07
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jey5274
Joanna :
🥰Wells said 🫶 True🫶felt like pushing me from the cliff, after most amazing get away weekend
2026-09-19 21:34:38
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jo290149
lavender Jojo :
devastating
2026-09-19 22:25:59
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michelma000
Michiboo :
no music please
2026-09-22 20:38:43
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lyndareid7
🌿lil'trees🍁Tjeran🇳🇴🇨🇦 :
#thesaltycupcake6fanclub
2026-09-24 12:13:14
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hy.littlepau17
Pau :
аnԝеn rеіd dіdn’t tеll mе tо rеlах. thе аnхıеtү ԛuıꮓ nаmеd thе раttеrn і ĸерt ϲаllіng mү реrѕοnаlіtу
2026-09-21 10:59:31
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