Jordan Dann Somatic Therapist
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Saturday 19 September 2026 12:06:04 GMT
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Shelly :
Speaking in 3rd person is never a good start 😐
2026-09-19 18:31:55
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somsom :
Very true. This man is so delusional as to what is realistic. Meanwhile, he’s nowhere near reciprocal.
2026-09-19 13:33:45
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VRinProgress :
Or when being understood is code for agree with me or you’re wrong cuz my pov is correct
2026-09-19 14:49:18
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Stefsopla :
“Give me an experience I didn’t receive earlier in life”😫
2026-09-19 15:29:50
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Squirrel Mouse :
Help. What do I do if I’m in this dynamic? My partner’s threshold for feeling understood and empathized is so high, and to be ‘understood’ seems to mean collapsing my reality into his and suppressing my subjectivity indefinitely.
2026-10-10 05:27:56
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Alucard286 :
"I need you to understand me" can also become "I want you to fix me". in connection to the carrying those developmental needs into adulthood, that repair has to come from within. even having a relationship that is healthy, even if you feel expectations arent being met, will not repair that wound. the work starts from within
2026-09-19 17:38:29
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Belinda Smith :
This is why people have to do therapy separately and then couples therapy. Because you cannot be expected to carry someone else’s baggage. An healthy relationship requires you to take ownership of yourself, and not place the burden onto others.
2026-09-19 15:17:39
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KrispyCritter1010 :
Why is he speaking in third person?!?
2026-10-17 19:52:13
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Desiree_Jayne :
My ex was on some level neglected as a child. I don’t know how much, but I do know it left some hole there that I was incapable of filling or fixing. As we got older is when I really noticed and It showed a lot more. It was shocked me when he said something that made it clear. I have a lot of love for my ex but yeah there is a limit to what a spouse can provide or even discuss.
2026-09-19 15:04:21
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Ava :
He wanted WAY too much from that nice lady.
2026-10-09 12:03:43
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James Tennant :
Well what about about basic empathy. Like I had a bad day, shouldn't my partner show some interest and understanding?
2026-10-01 14:00:43
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Nyari :
I experienced this in a relationship. In the long run, no amount of being present, listening, reassuring would ever be enough, because I couldn't heal those wounds for him. And it felt like he wanted to offload onto me the work of emotionally regulating through certain situations.
2026-09-19 18:58:38
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LeeLee :
you cooked with this 😩
2026-09-19 15:13:10
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Song of My Selves :
it'd be nice if my partner could look like he has emotions
2026-09-19 14:32:00
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austy.pants :
I really struggle with this. When I don’t feel seen in one tiny moment it feels like a gunshot wound
2026-10-14 02:03:02
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lindshee :
Substack
2026-09-19 22:45:51
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TrishtheTexanMom💙 :
‘Shared purpose’
2026-09-19 15:18:25
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Winter Valdez :
Ty for saying that.
2026-09-19 15:48:48
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Charisse McEwen :
Substack
2026-09-21 09:28:14
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joseph harnish :
I think these shows are evil filming therapy and making entertainment of it is just wrong. ( I know you are not responsible for the show, I’m just sayin)
2026-09-19 16:10:32
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Shanzepp :
Like with Mau, when he described “support” and “feeling seen” as Annie anticipating every single need without ever having to ask. He wants the care that a literal baby gets, not a partner
2026-10-05 19:18:06
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Nola Rebelle :
Men, fix your own shit.
2026-09-21 19:22:56
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Joni Nordberg :
The time in your when you were entitled to this has come and gone….
2026-09-22 14:21:21
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HumanApprentice :
Why does he speak about himself in the 3rd person?! Ick.
2026-10-19 16:27:30
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