Sorry rookie mistake take your leftovers first then offer the rest to guests.
2026-09-19 19:07:15
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ZeeGee :
Having to explain to people to not take ALL of the good is insane. If someone is hosting, someone else should have packed leftovers for the host first
2026-09-19 19:42:02
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🇵🇸CheekyGhirl 🇵🇸 :
I get it but you did say help yourselves to leftovers. So they did
2026-09-19 17:13:09
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emma p :
NTA. When people take advantage of hospitality, I wouldnt be offering it again
2026-09-19 15:24:11
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Haphazardventures :
Always put your portion away first. You paid for it.
2026-09-19 18:40:52
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tikkytikkytok :
That is greedy behavior. How dare they not consider the host wanting some leftovers for themselves?
2026-09-19 20:33:50
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Semicolon :
i hate food hoarders!!! like the host family wants damn leftovers too!!!
2026-09-19 19:41:23
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Jessica Marie :
I was always taught to help yourself means to take a plate worth for each one person
2026-09-19 20:06:08
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Live_til_you can’t :
Or you just pack up what you want and put it in the fridge and then tell them to take what’s left
2026-09-20 01:21:37
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nfterman :
My ex’ relatives were the same way. So insane. Ultimately their behavior and my ex’ inability to protect my kids and I were the sticking point. Getting continuously run over is miserable. And I don’t blame you for not wanting to host so soon again.
2026-09-20 05:28:43
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Leela77 :
I kinda get both sides. You offer them to take leftovers without any specifications, but you’re hosting and bought the food and made it so you should’ve been left with quite a bit and I wouldn’t have taken that much. But I knew kind of seen them miscommunication.
2026-09-19 19:01:23
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MrsD :
And they didn’t even leave any dessert for you guys, instead taking it home with them!! That’s so rude.
2026-09-20 04:51:56
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Angela 🇨🇴🇬🇧 :
How would guests know they did not put aside leftovers for themselves?
2026-09-19 15:39:11
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Dawn :
Thats crazy that is the best perk to hosting leftovers. Someone has no boundaries. NTA
2026-09-19 18:26:56
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DonnerDinnerParty :
Always get your portion first.
2026-09-20 06:31:43
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DestinationDiscovery :
Nope nope. They were supposed to take a plate for themselves and leave the rest
2026-09-19 21:44:38
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sanlifeyyz :
always take your own left overs & hide it before you offer to guest
2026-09-19 21:43:08
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Marilu Bernhardt :
I don't know what to say about this cuz I love to feed people but at the same time I understand
2026-09-20 02:11:24
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Lorraine :
id tell the group why, when I was declining , and gently say _____ (person's name) spoiled it for you.
2026-09-19 17:44:35
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sdccl71 :
Nta, but you did tell them help themselves. Give yourself a rest for Christmas if you can, but next time put up the food you want to keep.
2026-09-19 18:23:05
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Kay H. Diaz :
honestly this one's on op you really need to help people at the end of events or just have everyone grab their leftovers at once saying help yourselves with no limitations. someone will absolutely overly help themselves.
2026-09-20 03:15:10
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Max Talley :
put what u want in the other fridge
2026-09-19 21:43:07
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Tina :
You need to put away the food you want first
2026-09-19 19:57:42
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Jennifer ❤️❤️❤️ :
i always clean up and take care of the leftovers. i do not let them just help themselves. i put the leftovers for my family away in the fridge and then when someone wants some i make them 1 plate.
Also i have people who brought food and pack up their stuff and if anyone asks for some of the food they brought they can ask that person.
2026-09-20 00:40:27
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Katriana :
some leftovers are not all of the leftovers. that's crazy. Op is definitely NTA
2026-09-19 20:36:27
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