Charles Duhigg
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Saturday 19 September 2026 16:00:19 GMT
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Naomy Q :
So active listening ?
2026-09-19 17:14:27
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cat_lady :
that's called mirroring and it's not new
2026-09-20 01:20:41
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benshapirosfindom :
Maybe it's my adhd but I cannot stand people looping back at me
2026-09-20 08:18:50
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Beatriz Moreira :
there was a guy in my work that would do this all the time and we hated that he would drag meetings just repeating what we already said out loud 🤡
2026-09-19 17:42:22
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Dustin :
This guy took paraphrasing called it looping..
2026-09-19 23:35:41
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CoolVidViewer :
That not just from the common counseling technique- Person Centred Therapy?
2026-09-20 07:27:51
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AuthorLauraWright :
Aka: deep listening.
2026-09-19 17:45:33
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rustybridges_1 :
So actually listening to them. 😂 This guy and his best selling book.😳😂
2026-09-20 05:47:18
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lindybcn :
my tip: be a trustworthy person.
2026-09-19 17:49:30
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✈️ :
Is it possible to add our personal flair when we repeat it back? Like teasing or putting funny context/POV?
2026-09-20 05:28:23
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kulet taba potpot and sassy 🤗 :
My boss always pissed off every time i do that 😏
2026-09-20 07:22:21
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Kjv20 :
We do this in therapy
2026-09-19 17:06:39
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acanthonus.armatus :
“I went to Tahiti” “oh you went to an island in the pacific, did I get that right?”
2026-09-20 00:20:58
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rize :
pls don't do this for every single situation. You might make someone angry as repeating they words back can also mean you don't actually hear them, for some people
2026-09-20 08:32:07
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emilywalsh443 :
so paraphrasing to clarify. ......
2026-09-19 20:49:51
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MrOolong :
So you mean like parroting back in paraphrased form? Did I get that right?
2026-09-20 03:05:19
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12345 :
Be interested not interesting
2026-09-19 18:06:45
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Barttenn :
“In my best selling book” 😅
2026-09-20 06:16:09
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lee :
I do this naturally because I really want to understand
2026-09-19 18:36:00
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Jake Penebaker :
I don’t know. Sometimes it just feels unauthentic, like I’m at a therapy session or something.
2026-09-20 05:18:11
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Julia :
I just naturally do that because I am a genuine person. 🤷🏻♀️
2026-09-19 18:24:34
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nikoocdpup :
So you’re saying if I repeat back what someone says to them but in their own words they will trust me more?
2026-09-19 23:35:02
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shasm :
it might work well on boomers and gen x, it mostly wouldn't work on millennials, and definitely won't work on gen z and younger
2026-09-19 18:52:45
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saltless_player :
It’s like active listening? DID I GET THAT RIGHT?
2026-09-20 05:54:51
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ً :
so you repeat things back in your own words ... did I get that right? 😈
2026-09-19 21:19:46
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