@scrambled.megs3: I did ask for help. Over and over again. Eventually, you just get tired of asking. #narcissisticabuse #emotionalabuse #toxicrelationship #narcissist #abuseawareness
So triggered! “Just because I didn’t do something when you wanted it done” 🤦♀️
2026-09-19 19:16:09
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D :
but the divorce came out of nowhere
2026-09-19 21:02:57
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Southern Mystic :
And thats when you stop. You stop washing his clothes, you get take out before you come home, you have one cup you drink out of and keep clean, you dont pick up or do a single thing that was a direct result of him living. Before long, he will have something to say and then you can just ignore him and pretend you have no idea what hes talking about.
2026-09-20 01:43:44
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Rigatoni :
"No body asked you to do all those things. You chose to. It's your choice you be a clean freak." (As though not wanting dishes sitting in the sink makes someone a clean freak)
2026-09-19 21:21:46
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⃟ :
im triggered by this but then I look around at my clean, smell good, man free home and I settle my nerves🥰
2026-09-20 13:36:41
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Kim :
And let’s not forget to the infamous “I never do anything right anyway so why bother?”
2026-09-19 21:16:42
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KATRINA :
shouldn't have to ask though
he lives there too. this angers me
2026-09-20 14:04:42
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StrivingNeutral :
I actually stopped doing it. All of it. I washed my clothes. I bought some paper plates and plastic cutlery and hid it. I stayed out of the house as much as possible. But I quit doing it. Came home day and the house was clean. Dishes done. Laundry done. Floors, counters, tables clean. And now I don’t have to ask for help more than once.
2026-09-20 03:53:59
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lifes_little_adventures :
I asked for help affording laundry detergent. We ran out. I had to wait over a week until pay day, asking every few days. Once payday hit I finally bought it but still kept asking him for it. I kept asking and bought/went through 3 jugs of detergent before I lost it on him. He unwillingly bought me a small jug that night. He was moved out 1 week later.
2026-09-20 21:52:48
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Kelly :
The gaslighting from the husband is ridiculous
2026-09-20 22:07:49
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user466639656962 :
Because it’s easier to do it ourselves! I don’t have time to give people instructions
2026-09-19 20:46:39
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Beki ❤️ :
And it’s always “what’s wrong with you”. YOU! YOU are what’s wrong with me 😅
2026-09-19 21:01:51
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Nickole Reimer 🇨🇦 :
I straight up told my husband " I don't want to be thanked for cleaning the house, I want help"
and I also told him I don't want to tell him what needs to be done, use your eyes and figure it out
2026-09-20 20:37:21
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Aubrey :
They still expect us to work full time, come home and still do household chores. My favorite is “I’ll hired a maid” for an apartment 😞
2026-09-19 20:30:43
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Sylvie Heblij :
May this love never find me😵💫
2026-09-20 20:07:34
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Rose :
Why do we have to ask though? They live here too 🤦
2026-09-20 02:17:09
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lovesquirrels :
It’s called weaponized incompetence. If they just ignore it or act like they don’t know how, they know you will do it yourself and they can act like they actually tried.
2026-09-19 19:31:20
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Mariah :
Exhausting
2026-09-20 13:36:11
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NanoDalek :
hey and let's not forget to take care of ourselves and look like we did when we first met! [Tears of joy]
2026-09-20 06:19:08
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sonalupaperstudio :
Mine did the same thing. My “favorite” was when I would ask for help with the dirty dishes since I planned, prepped, cooked dinner and basically cleaned up and he would say yeah…And then do it midnight!! Loudly.
2026-09-19 19:59:15
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✨️Cindy✨️ :
The divorce came out of nowhere 🤨
2026-09-19 20:46:12
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Afrodite! :
This is triggering me!!!
2026-09-19 18:50:38
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tiktokvyee :
Just make me a list!!! 😂
2026-09-19 21:33:36
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The spiced ginger :
When I tried Express how exhausting being pregnant was… legit got blamed for not asking for more help…. Lazy arse man child wanted a list.
2026-09-19 22:42:08
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Kim :
I've learned to not expect help and then when HE wants something from me, I am tired. so.. I don't help him either and let him know if he would have helped around the house, I would have had time for him and what he wanted.
2026-09-19 19:36:09
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