@arthurcbrooks: When you choose your own dates, you tend to look for sameness. But compatibility is not about finding someone exactly like you. It’s about sharing the values that matter while having enough differences to complement each other. So the next time someone who knows you well wants to set you up, be open to it. They might see a fit that you could have missed yourself.
Until you realize that your friends don’t even know you at all. 😆
2026-09-20 17:10:13
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Lisa Van Stetsen BabyBear :
Perhaps the matchmaker should make a comeback
2026-09-20 00:22:29
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elle step :
this only works if your friend actually know you and your values
2026-10-10 23:36:02
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elleon :
The two worst dates I've ever been on were blind dates set up by a good friend, and i had to reconsider how she thought of me and why she thought these men were good matches for me
2026-09-20 04:38:08
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Pink_Fire369 :
OR strengthen your relationship with God and he WILL place you and your kingdom spouse together. Pray and have faith that he is the one and only one who can set you up on a blind date. 🙏🏼💯
2026-09-20 11:11:53
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erica lee :
i was set up on a blind date by a newer friend and her husband and it ended up being an ex boyfriend i hadnt seen in 3 years.
2026-09-20 13:19:08
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noturwtch :
Oh no they picked exactly what I didnt want unfortunately to a point where I was like do you guys even know me
2026-09-20 04:57:27
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Where Is Drew Now :
Almost nobody does that anymore. First you have to persuade people to do that.
2026-09-20 00:40:15
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MsCaementicium :
I have no friends so I’ll be single forever
2026-09-20 00:49:04
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Ashley Anessa :
Make sure your friend is very self aware and empathetic or their gonna choose someone they would want for themselves.
2026-09-20 04:16:45
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laurenmicl :
That’s how my mom and dad met… They were set up on a blind date by a mutual friend
2026-09-20 05:15:11
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user9712188783661 :
My friend set me up with a Narcissist
2026-09-23 21:19:15
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A Giant Unicorn 🦄 :
Serial monogamous folks or those who married their first partner are not good matchmakers. Cynical people are very good matchmakers. They won’t set you up unless they know there would be chemistry.
2026-09-20 16:31:00
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HollyD7 :
37 years and still crazy in love and this is exactly how we met
2026-09-20 03:57:48
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Margaret Pate :
Incorrect. I have been set up SO many times…and it’s just people shoving two single people together
2026-09-21 02:37:51
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deb_scot :
That’s how my husband and I met ! Mutual friend and we never saw each other before we met ! 22 years later I would pick him all over again 🥰
2026-09-20 01:13:21
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hkl8181 :
That’s how I met my partner — we were set up and are so happy 🥰
2026-09-20 02:10:34
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Misty ⚡️🩷 :
My blind date and I ghosted each other, reconnected 8 months later. I fell head over heels and he asked me to be his gf in 2 weeks of reconnecting. Dumped after three months but knew about 2 weeks into being official he was no longer interested.
2026-09-20 13:25:11
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Brooke🇺🇸 :
I’m gonna let God find him. He will write my love story. Proverbs 18:22
2026-09-20 17:37:45
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AdventuresOfMissCriss :
I had my girlfriends go through my likes and help me pick the ones I replied to. Met a great guy and we’ve been together almost a year
2026-09-21 13:32:33
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The Style Artisan :
Maybe back in the day! This will not work now.
2026-09-21 17:27:33
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aubmolloy :
my friends kept suggesting low life's for me when I clearly moved away from those men
2026-09-21 19:26:04
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Girl_in_Curls :
That would require people to put in effort instead of “but you’re both single!” I’m not picking someone because they happen to also be single!😡😡
2026-09-21 02:17:39
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Suse45 :
Friend set me up with a good friend of hers. Married now for 30 years.
2026-09-21 03:26:53
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Eterne Coaching :
Friends are basically natural matchmakers lol
2026-09-20 21:43:06
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