I have to financially provide for everything without her, so her presence is to enhance my life. We both still share in house hold duties, I don't need a mother, I want a partner in life.
2026-09-20 04:35:56
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Adamw5757 :
I am the breadwinner that works 65/70 hours a week. My wife works part time. We also have 4 kids. We are partners she isn’t my subordinate. We both pull are weight at home and with our 4 kids. Just because my job pass the bills doesn’t mean I don’t have to do house work and taking care of our children. I am more than just a paycheck.
2026-09-20 13:13:16
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Erica :
I hate Ai, But your videos are so on point!
2026-09-20 04:27:12
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bubblesforever :
Why is there a need for a leader in the relationship to begin with!? Marriage/cohabitation should be equal decision making, equal work depression and if there are children equal parenting! Why are men so hung up on being the leader?
2026-09-20 05:34:27
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Coal.essence :
providing means way more than just monetary
2026-09-20 03:06:20
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Sherri :
is he asking himself the questions?
2026-09-20 04:09:12
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coolaidisgenie :
OMG… I had the perfect husband and that’s what it was. He was the leader by the way his decision on how he took care of everything emotionally and physically and mentally but he passed away and now I have to do everything by myself 😭🙏I’m a widow now
2026-09-20 04:29:28
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Bella G 🌺 :
Yes, but let’s not act like women don’t also possess the characteristics and skills of an effective leader.
2026-09-20 11:32:53
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Nayome :
Marriage from the inception was transactional!!
2026-09-20 13:14:05
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🦖 :
I was a traditional wife, I stayed home and raised my 4 children while he worked. As soon as my youngest was 5 I started working full time, plus still raising my children. I was told by my husband that the money I brought in was nothing compared to what he made. I was working longer and harder than him but whatever he did was always more important. We are divorced now
2026-09-20 02:59:59
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christinedavids93 :
I hope a lot of men see this and listen with understanding because some men don't know the difference between leadership and controlling,
2026-09-20 06:52:21
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be💕you💕tiful :
A man who has to claim leadership isn't a leader in the 1st place. He sees the household as a hierarchy system in which he is entitled to be at the very top all the time. Simply for being a man. With or without leadership skills. Without or without 50-50. Sometimes, with or without a job! Anything less and he feels "emasculated" That's toxic patriarchal conditioning and some women don't want any of that in their life.
2026-09-20 06:38:20
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sistruly :
This was an intellectual rational relationship conversation with great understanding
2026-09-20 03:58:11
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brother D :
wow I have a better understanding about the whole life relationship thing.... great clearities
2026-09-20 11:36:57
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the_librocubicularist :
this conversation feels Ai
2026-09-20 14:53:41
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Nozimbali_ :
He is a good listener
2026-09-20 06:33:27
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Timothy Glanton :
preach...understanding is the key....you live in learn....God Bless....enjoy life
2026-09-20 06:17:59
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OLIYA :
Do not anchor around a woman. Provision is its own value. ¹He provides , ² She provides thus both provide in their capacity and in their form of male and female. His responsibility: it is toward the household and children - he cannot control how she responds to that.
2026-09-20 07:31:18
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KdotTelevision :
You just ended the gender war with this one 🫶🏽
2026-09-20 04:54:14
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Freyja :
Bills exist with or without a family. It's the bare minimum. How a man behaves and treats others is far more important.
2026-09-20 05:44:56
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Allie🌻🌟JustOutsideOfNormal :
AS LEVERAGE!!!! Like that’s literally the fricking POINT
2026-09-20 04:35:24
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🥰Toot toot girlie1🥰 :
I love these 🥰🥰🥰
2026-09-20 03:58:16
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Angelica Cristea :
Such an insightful conversation!
2026-09-20 03:58:51
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lenaF.L🇨🇻🇵🇹🇬🇧 :
I'm good paying everything myself and only catering for myself.
2026-09-20 05:23:00
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mistigal :
Even in the animal kingdom, they undertand it better than humans od today. For example, a lion pride family. Protection, guidance and guardance surpasses just prividion to qualify as factors of leadership. As long as the man is stronger, sharper, smarter, and self-sacrificial, They become the leader. It is left for everyman to qualify to be a leader, not just cos he is a man. So do everywoman should take responsibility for which leader to choose for themselves.
2026-09-20 05:00:15
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