@imjustkesha7: Sometimes the hardest thing to admit is that the person asking what changed played a part in the change. #RelationshipTalk #EmotionalDistance #LoveAndTrust #RelationshipAdvice #Healing
My husband doesn’t ask what’s wrong because he knows. Deep down, I know he knows.
2026-09-20 19:21:44
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Your Concerned Therapist :
He's asks then he argues
2026-09-25 22:53:18
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🌻🌷🌻🌷🌻 :
this was painful 🥺
2026-09-25 23:13:53
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KenzOsaurusREX :
100% so tired of me trying to explain what’s wrong only for him to still say “guess I’m just the worst husband” etc 🙄
2026-09-22 11:59:56
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Sonaïe :
My ex-husband would ask me what was wrong whenever he sensed that I was starting to see through his manipulation.
2026-09-21 21:27:30
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BritS :
Yeah so I don’t even say anything cause it’s just going to start a argument for me having feelings. And also he only asks me this when the kids are around or in front of family or friends.. like this is an inappropriate conversation to have with an audience…
2026-09-22 15:22:25
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Double Niks :
I’m just so tired of his defensive responses that don’t accomplish anything or the lack of acknowledgement or validation of my own personal feelings!
2026-09-22 19:49:24
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Tara Marie :
wait.. what... your man asks you what's wrong?
2026-09-23 03:22:43
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Jo Mama Misty :
And then, we just quit MF caring 💯
2026-09-22 17:53:16
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Enola 🪨 :
I’ve been married for 32 years since I was 18. And our marriage has gone through him being in the military.. losses of family members, children’s graduations lots of different moves. And a lot of family drama.. and exactly what you’re saying we’ve been through I’ve been through. And the hardest conversation to bring up is exactly that.. is the change. I have felt in myself due to things that not only have been brought up because of the actions of my husband, but because of the things that he has done and said.. and to put it into words in a way that doesn’t have my husband automatically go to the well I’m just the asshole statement sometimes it’s hard. It’s hard to put it into the words that are appropriate because I tend to not have the tacked behind them I’m blunt and brutally honest and forceful. I found putting it in writing because I get my point across in a way that seems to help him understand how I feel.. as I’ve gotten older, I’ve tend to give less shits of his feelings because his processing of things needs to come from within himself of his own change. And some of these changes are the same changes. I’ve been asking for him to make save the last 10 years.. and even though I’ve been working on myself and my changes what he needs from me through many of conversations some of those changes he has yet to make. But he has gone to counselling to help himself for the tools that he needs to move forward and that at least is a step in the direction that helps us navigate some of the issues so I could at least say he has tried to put his best foot forward. And that I can say I’m grateful for.
2026-09-24 13:20:00
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Kiraliralira :
That last sentence hit
2026-09-20 21:31:23
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Pat ❤️ :
The problem asking you what’s the problem
2026-09-20 12:08:35
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rivers&lakes :
I stopped giving a response to the what's wrong question because there came a point where it seemed so blatantly obvious to me what was wrong that it felt like manipulation that he was even asking. It was sad because I knew that meant for me that the end of the relationship was inevitable. For him "it came out of nowhere" but when you choose to be blind I guess it would seem that way.
2026-09-21 20:59:00
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lizajoseph373 :
At least he's asking what's wrong. Mine doesn't care to know.
2026-09-21 14:00:51
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Zoey :
A few days ago I kept asking myself if I should tell him how he’s making me feel or block I opted blocking cause I’ve explained before with no change
2026-09-20 05:34:42
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samwise_i_am :
Or, he asks what’s wrong, and you find just the right words to tell him, and then shortly thereafter he flips the script and accuses you of doing the same. I really don’t know how to handle that one. I told him that when I brought him my needs he was dismissive and uncaring, so eventually I just stopped. Now, according to him, I do the same thing.
2026-09-24 01:07:24
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iamCWilliams23 :
😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨 This is SO TRUE!!
2026-09-20 14:11:53
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Kii :
How I’m feeling now
2026-09-20 15:01:15
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Neo 🐝 :
this.
2026-09-20 15:31:26
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Fle❌2Day :
I’ve told him! It’s liberating af! However, he still isn’t capable of loving me properly. His capacity is the reality I ignored for too long trying to continue to live in potential calling it love. I lost myself his way. It’s painful now that I am awake
2026-09-24 13:04:29
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Danajo :
We need enter relationships with our logic instead of our hearts bc that's only way to focus just actions & not words to find the right fit. The right fit will put just as much healthy effort to make relationship work as you do.
2026-09-22 15:15:17
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MayaMilz2 :
My silence is his peace.😒
2026-09-23 01:11:52
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NeNe Darling :
That last part
2026-09-23 04:27:43
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