@macchiatheaux: We have to start valuing good marriages. Not just marriage. It has to be a good marriage to a good man under good circumstances when the time is right and the person is right. Marriage is not bad, but marrying a bad person makes marriage bad. Engagement is not a promise to marry it’s a step towards marriage, each person must continue to prove themselves through the engagement. If you think about marriage it’s like a business contract. When you are in an engagement, you must still perform properly, if you do not that engagement can be called off. Too many people think well I’m engaged. Let me march towards the altar and let me go ahead and sign these papers. No, your eyes should be open even wider during an engagement and at the first sign of improper behavior you should call that wedding off. It’s almost like a probationary period. He better be on his best behavior or else. When a man cheats while you were together and still proposes, he doesn’t respect you, but when you find out about that cheating, you stay with him and you continue to marry him you don’t respect yourself. #m#marriagee#engagementc#cheatingb#bigsis

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