@dumebilea: Am I the only one who struggles with work and career since becoming a mom??? #motherhoodbelike #momsoftiktokover30 #postpartumrecovery #momsoftoddlers #marriedwithchildren

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etheldvoice
Ethel D Voice :
Being a Full house wife and Mum is a Full time Job . I've said it several times.
2026-09-20 22:44:36
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suessparkles
Sussie_ :
Everything you said is trueee, the only issue is some women get to comfortable in that spot
2026-09-20 16:33:41
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barrister.lawyer
T.O. ONONUGA ESQ :
The truth be told most women rarely bounce back after the break. It’s a whole lot honestly.
2026-09-20 19:30:04
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jessicaoluchio
JessTalks :
i currently have a 6 month old and a 1 yr 10 month old. i work from home but i barely get anything done during the day. i stay awake some nights to work too while also breastfeeding at intervals. Some days, i feel like I'm going mad especially since i have been stuck indoors for up 3 years now. I'm just ranting because I'm tired
2026-09-21 13:15:04
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damz_kiddies
Kiddies vendor in Lagos :
Story of my life
2026-09-20 12:24:25
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gee_skincare12
cosmetics vendor in tradefair :
just discussed this topic with a friend yesterday,I told her to enjoy herself oo cos motherhood takes a lot if I didn't have a good business and structure it omo person frustrate oo and have a good husband.
2026-09-20 13:19:46
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tolu_ayaade
tolu_ayaade :
Hunmmm i am a mom of 2, i do 9-5 and i can tell you its not easy, if you take a step back from work and focus on on motherhood i would not judge you. If you juggle both i would also not judge you, our strength and support system differs
2026-09-20 17:33:54
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gloriandesign
GD Design :
they said i was using parenting as an excuse,me wey don nearly craze
2026-09-20 14:31:22
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ot3_babes
Ot3 🥰💯 :
Motherhood has slowed down my career. I resigned from a well paying job to face motherhood. Am done with child bearing (3 kids) and ready to go back to workforce. Am glad I took that decision
2026-09-20 17:13:59
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makalisia_
💎🌸🌸💍Makalisia🌸🌸💍💎 :
Nne!!!! I can’t just talk. All I know is that. So far I’m alive, I’ll make something out of myself
2026-09-20 12:34:00
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hairgorgeousng
Hairgorgeousng :
I paused my life for a year to Birth my child and take care of her oo I am not regretting anything cos menhhh motherhood is tooo sweet abeg. I was at the peak of my business planning to go to China and Vietnam and God gave me a miracle after 14years of waiting an and I should feel bad for pausing my business???? As how nauuuu ???? My life is still beautiful without my business o.
2026-09-21 10:12:43
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lizzychizy
lizzybaby :
I take my time do whatever I want, if you pressure me I warn you sternly and cut U off immediately. I have a 5 months old too plus 6 and 4 years, I go to my by 10am and close by 4pm . because there's still homework waiting for me . if you pressure me, I'll insult you very well to my satisfaction. my mouth no good.
2026-09-20 13:55:23
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mummystarshine2020
S⭐S🌕 :
Finally someone that understands what am going through.thank you
2026-09-20 14:14:26
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mella.okafor
Mella Okafor :
who no go no go know
2026-09-20 14:20:06
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ellakelz
Ella_🌺 :
Did you just speak for me? 🥺🥺
2026-09-20 14:33:51
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thewellbeingarena
Adesewa Oginni :
So true 💯 and no one will understand if they’ve not passed through it. From pregnancy sef I lost interest in my business
2026-09-20 17:43:20
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elixirb1
1enOnly :
I just block and delete them fiam! It's really annoying, it's even more painful when all the yeye talk dey come from women.
2026-09-20 21:55:13
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famous.542
Double S5 :
well said sis
2026-09-20 16:22:19
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beccambat
Becca⭐ :
someone has finally made sense on this saga
2026-09-20 12:57:05
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osabouhienfransis
fransisca ❤️ :
ma you just said my mind because you understand the whole situation but sometimes I feel guilty and feel the responsibilities is overwhelming hubby...i even tried taking remote job course online...but the job hunting is not for the weak...I really want to make something no matter how small while I nurse my babies...God pls help me
2026-09-20 13:32:53
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abayomi_odeniran
Yomyom :
You are doing absolutely great. Just go at your pace. Your experience might entirely be different from other people, and that doesn’t make you ambitious or not. You are only directing your energy to motherhood and that’s a sacrifice every good mother can make. It’s not laziness but productive too
2026-09-20 13:20:49
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thataworibabe
thataworibabe :
Someone of us cannot be pressure no matter what anyone says or do as long as I am not bringing my problems to you. At every point that I had new babies I take a pause for as long as I want to cause my health and healthy babies is the goal. If anyone finds me nor worthy to be in their space during this period then I don’t want them either. Right now I have a 10months old baby who needs me and I am still here.
2026-09-20 12:45:32
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lagosfashionward_balogun
LagosfashionwardBalogun🫥🫥 :
I wish it’s a feeling that can be written 🥹🥹but I always ask God for strength…it’s not easy
2026-09-20 14:24:26
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rejoycecherechi
Riri :
It's not easy juggling work and motherhood. it's crazyyy, for me, I choose to juggle both. Some days, I question my "why", some days, I keep going. Shout out to mums who dedicate their time to fully care for their babies. Shout out to dads who support their wives to fully stay at home and focus on the babies.
2026-09-20 22:06:29
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genz.hr.girly
GenZ HR Girly :
I'm not talking for anyone, but I'd never leave my source of income because of children. The way my husband figures out his own, he'd also figure out my own. Even though mother hood will slow you down, I'd rather slow down than stop.
2026-09-21 10:43:46
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