People keep telling me that I’m a “lesbian in denial” or that I should “just call myself a lesbian” because of my strong preferences for women. My attraction is split like 98/2, and that 2% is purely just sexual. That 2% still, by definition, means I’m not a lesbian. Idk why people are so afraid of being bisexual.
2026-09-20 22:36:52
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angel ⋆.˚⋆⭒˚.⋆ :
Even if your attraction to men was .1% and your attraction to woman was 99% you are still BI. Lesbian = only being attracted to women in any kind of sense
2026-09-20 23:05:21
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𓃠 Ԍ𝖆𝖙𝖔 𓃠 Ena's wife☥🇵🇷 :
why are people scared to be bi
2026-09-20 18:33:46
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Renee :
And just because you don’t WANT to date a man, doesn’t mean you’re not bi. You can mostly like girls and like ONE man in the whole world and still be bi. It’s ok!!!
2026-09-20 22:21:04
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Lame Sasquatch :
Bisexual hot take here? Everyone is some degree of Bisexual and all evidence to the contrary is completely social conditioning. If you're a non-asexual human you find the human body and its characteristics attractive, and the vast majority of those characteristics (read; anything other than sexual organs) are not sex specific. Unless the sum of your attraction begins and ends at the crux of the thighs, you're not exclusively attracted to one sex you're attracted to secondary charFteristics.
2026-09-20 23:59:05
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💢 𝖱𝗂𝗋𝗂 ⋮ 𝖱𝖾𝗆𝗂 .ᐟ.ᐟ :
I said this and got called lesbophobic and a sexuality police like #ok
2026-09-20 17:10:31
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🧡🤍🩷 :
I saw a comment on a video the other day suggesting the poster’s sexuality could be lesbian and biromantic… how abt you’re just bisexual
2026-09-21 15:41:05
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NUMBER 1 Anya Stan :
Someone asked me “but if you like mascs why not just date a trans man or cis men” well..because…
2026-09-21 12:34:02
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Benny911 :
This includes “feminine men”. Most lesbians ive met said they are lesbian bc the only like women and effeminate men. Girl ur bi
2026-09-20 18:33:32
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jay.latroy :
This goes for men too!
2026-09-20 21:46:16
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dexter :
They’ll try to fight you on this
2026-09-21 00:06:19
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abbie 🌀 :
how is this controversial 😭
2026-09-20 21:10:43
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Totally _Not_Nay :
People forget that sexual and romantic orientations are about attraction. They are not dating preferences.
2026-09-21 05:12:09
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bellay :
It's normal to being bi and leaning towards a certain gender while still liking both. and people love to forget abt that, bc I'm told I'm straight all the time for having a bf which ignores my experiences I've had with women and my overall preferences :(
2026-09-20 16:11:14
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hauntedcleavage69 :
you can be bi and lean towards one gender. i don’t get why people can’t grasp this
2026-09-21 06:17:22
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girl_fromsomewhere :
Like it’s making it hard for BISEXUALS. Please it’s ok to be bisexual. You can have a preference for women but still bisexual but don’t claim to be a lesbian because it’s hurting both identities
2026-09-20 22:03:22
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elle :
idk why people think lesbian is better then bisexual, or that any form of lgbtq is better then being a straight ally. we are all equal no matter who you love and I hate how much stigma is within the community
2026-09-20 19:08:18
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chanel ⁎⁺˳✧༚ :
its actually so tiring we have to have this discussion all the time like how hard is it to understand the lesbian label
2026-09-20 19:32:10
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qngvamp :
As a bi woman I find it so frustrating! Hiding behind the lesbian label because you’re ashamed of being attracted to men is so messed up. Not only does this harm lesbians but it fuels the stigma about bi women😭
2026-09-21 01:46:31
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Bub :
Why is bisexuality such a hard concept for ppl. For both men and women???? Like it’s genuinely so easy to understand and so many choose not to
2026-09-21 01:20:29
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NonchalantNerd :
Also the "I dated and loved men for a decade but now Ive decided Im a lesbian"
2026-09-22 00:28:21
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DEY_DEY :
It’s sad this has to be explained 😭
2026-09-20 20:08:00
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Alexia <3 :
label discourse is so incredibly exhausting
2026-09-20 18:41:11
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𝔅𝔩𝔦𝔫𝔤𝔇𝔬𝔩𝔩 :
like I'm gay and I've literally never had any urge to do anything whatsoever with a women 💀 this concept is not hard to understand
2026-09-21 00:38:05
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Noctus :
It’s gotta be internalized biphobia because the excuse is that if they say they’re bi, some lesbians won’t give them a chance but like…so what? Don’t be ashamed of your label and date somebody who won’t judge you for who you are 🤨
2026-09-21 20:00:34
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