When I'm anxious, I need your presence before I need your perspective
2026-09-20 20:27:23
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Amanda :
I saw someone say to ask if you need hug or help! I loved that and have been using it in my own relationship
2026-09-23 17:37:59
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Ashley.with.the.pink.bob :
I’m a fixer I don’t nurture adults
2026-09-21 12:29:01
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MoWine4Mo🍷 :
My girlfriends & I do this thing when one of us is upset or worried. We asked each other “which one of the 3 Hs do you need?” 1. Helped 2. Heard or 3. Hugged. Works amazing. 💖
2026-09-21 02:50:46
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FunnyAF316 :
I need to work on responding bc logic is my default and I am learning it’s not always the immediate response needed
2026-09-21 02:23:20
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Royalty Crown :
For those of you who misunderstood, there are steps to comforting your S/O before resolving their issues. He's not saying DON'T offer solutions; he's saying BE THERE for your person FIRST before "fixing" them.
2026-09-21 16:33:48
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LOVELY :
don't hand me shit but money and gifts 🥰
2026-09-20 18:01:29
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Victoria Raymond :
Sorry but I am a fixer. I give solutions. That's what I excel at. People come to me for that. I don't understand why we are holding hands when the solution is right in sight.
2026-09-21 14:35:14
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RespawnClips :
No…. If your worry is illogical I’m handing you facts and ima need you to learn to be logical before anything else next time
2026-09-21 11:36:02
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Bro? :
Learning this for my girlfriend. I personally still prefer advice/solutions but she showed me the power of a listening ear as well
2026-09-21 05:40:39
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Jasmine Michelle :
Exactlyyyy not looking for a solution!! Just want to be heard really
2026-09-20 23:21:39
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Andi B 🇨🇦🇧🇧 :
This is not for everyone. When I share my worries, I want solutions. I get irritated by “I’m here for you”- I want to fix the thing that is bothering me,
2026-09-21 23:31:54
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tayscythe.ttv :
Didn’t even have to teach him this 🥹❤️
2026-09-23 16:59:35
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Mimi🧚♀️🍒 :
Manipulative partners left the chat
2026-09-22 23:44:26
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Erin :
The hand being handed
2026-09-22 13:04:18
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Vivian :
I’m gonna send this to him, and he’d say “why would you need my hands for? Help right? Then we’d go straight into logic” and Idk, I may or may not smack the shit out of him after that LMAOOO jk
Exact opposite for me. Don’t throw me a pillow if I’m in the ocean drowning. Help me out this mf!
2026-09-21 20:42:19
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franklin_stephens3 :
please. if logic has a solution, keep your hand.
2026-09-21 04:48:47
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tesy :
Men hand logic..it’s nature
2026-09-21 11:14:14
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R.M Johnson | Founder :
I’m a Capricorn, first born, daughter. I’ll leave it at that. 😏😂
2026-09-21 00:23:11
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Nadia 👸🏾 :
I struggle w thissss cause wym we don’t need a solution rn 😭
2026-09-21 10:39:18
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TheModernQuaint🥀 :
I have to work on this because my way of helping is fixing it. I don’t want to see someone I love worried (or with a problem), so if I have an idea on how to take it away - I want to. But, I get it… a space just to be held is necessary too.
2026-09-21 10:55:15
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Fawn :
When I share a worry, hold my hand before you try to fix my head
2026-09-20 20:26:38
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