@bennylichtenwalner: If you want to get your ex back as fast as possible, you must fight the urge to do something. Getting your ex back is like being stuck in quicksand where the more you move around and take action the more you sink. Because everything that you do reset the clock and makes it take longer the most active thing that you could do to get your ex back is nothing. Eventually, you will have a chance once again. DM me the word magnet for help.