disorganized attachment will have you feeling like you're finally healed until you sit back and realize you've just been on the avoidant side the whole time
2026-09-21 13:37:04
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kr :
Disorganized attachment is the WORST because of how inconsistent it is. I’m the most self aware a person can be but I still don’t know what to expect from myself in relationships 🥲
2026-09-21 13:32:41
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🧑🩰 :
Bc I’m anxious until I get what i wanted, and then suddenly I’m avoidant. Literal hell
2026-09-21 15:53:31
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Amaka💋 :
Release me
2026-09-29 18:28:21
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Veronica <3 :
I'm only anxious if they are more avoidant than me
2026-09-23 19:44:24
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APuertoRicanBookNerd :
Shaking like a medieval rat with my fearful avoidance
2026-09-29 12:39:24
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kr0se :
Chasing emotionally unavailable men and getting the ick from men chasing me
2026-09-25 01:23:22
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shellysoftly1 :
Just when you think your done you only did one attachment 💀
2026-09-28 02:38:19
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🫖 :
RELEASE ME I DONT want ts no more
2026-09-21 02:38:28
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Anorie🪷 :
Somehow im gonna have both of everything and i mean everything
2026-09-29 16:49:13
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꒰ 𝐽𝑢𝑝𝑖𝑡𝑒𝑟⤷🌎🪫꒱ :
I HATEEEEEE THIS. GET ME OUT. I DESPISE BEING AWARE OF MYSELF
2026-09-21 12:45:47
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Lynds :
I hateeee having disorganized attachment! When I catch myself being anxious I pull back and then I become avoidant 😭 trying to heal both parts of me that go anxious and avoidant
2026-09-21 18:02:43
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Alyssa :
I think this is why I’d rather be alone and have been 😭
2026-09-28 03:36:06
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Tijana je svuda ✈️🌍 :
Disorganized attachment got me celibate for 5 years thinking I’m healing, only to get back to square one once I let someone get close to me 💀
2026-09-21 20:57:09
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Kat :
I had anxious attachment for years and in trying to heal I’ve found myself in disorganized and it is actual hell on earth to be loved
2026-09-21 04:42:13
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p.lopez0924 :
wanting love and then getting scared by intimacy 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
2026-09-21 08:30:05
187
K80 :
my psych says im avoidant attachment with a "strong aversion to any authorities" 🫠
2026-09-27 23:27:29
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Will :
It’s a clock
2026-09-22 17:17:11
55
Raven.quill :
Sitting there in those “no anxious are the worst, no avoidants are” arguments knowing damn well I get the worst of both worlds and it’s a damn mind field in my brain. EVEN WHEN IVE ALREADY DONE A LOT OF WORK ON IT.
2026-09-21 20:23:31
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xio ☘︎ ݁:࿔*. :
i’m anxious when things are rocky and then avoidant when things are good wtf even is that
2026-09-22 08:04:05
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baileyy :
I said no and i’m going to bed❤️
2026-09-21 08:13:57
294
dezirae.rae :
It’s like a death sentence
2026-09-21 11:46:05
132
R0ADK1LL [✨COMMS OPEN✨] :
OH IM NOT HUNGRYUHHH
2026-09-21 07:54:21
172
Tae’lur Alexis :
I contradict myself on a daily basis I hate it
2026-09-21 09:19:56
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Megan Marie :
Add my adhd/autism to the mix too…relationships make me insane
2026-09-21 22:17:53
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