@jennie_slade: Disclaimer: although I did wait a year, and I never got married… but I broke the other rules enough times to tell you to learn from my mistakes:) 😘
it’s me. i’m in crazy town. matter of fact.. the mayor of crazy town, actually
2026-09-24 00:05:04
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k e i r s t e n ❌ :
Married 28 years.. been divorced 6 years. You are exactly correct! That first year is INSANE.
2026-09-22 18:36:49
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Tammy Sams :
Never again. lol I’m good.
2026-09-23 20:21:51
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Shana Bana :
You’re beautiful!
2026-09-23 19:20:20
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Angel :
Learned the hard way! The message has been approved 💀😅
2026-09-22 14:31:03
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breecanclimbtrees :
Too late 🤣 I sowed my wild oats in that first year hahaha you’re right I was so crazy no regrets lol
2026-09-22 23:27:50
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stephanienicole26 :
My therapist supported my need to break out of the box and let lose a little. No hard rules on such a wild time in anyone’s life! It’s all different for every person.
2026-09-23 21:45:07
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bl0ssom85 FDT🇺🇲 :
married 20 years.. just starting my divorce journey
2026-09-23 02:39:33
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Rock O :
This is bad advice. You live and learn. You definitely need to date, so that you can learn what works for you. You don’t know that after you’ve been married to the wrong person for years. You need to learn. After one year, you’re still going to be in bad shape mentally. Get to work on it now. If you’re in your forties, you don’t have years to waste. Just don’t get attached. I’ve dated some amazing women right after they separated from their husbands, and of course it didn’t work out. They weren’t ready. But it was a great experience for both of us and we both grew.
2026-09-23 19:49:47
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Maddlibbs ndlpt :
These are the tips I need to be hearing right now
2026-09-22 02:24:09
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Becomingthatwoman2026 :
37 years 1 year still healing after the divorce
2026-09-23 09:13:30
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Cory Hansen :
“Or you’ll go marry someone you married before”…good point but there also is this “or you’ll be the person you were before”. Onus goes two ways. We all have to know that there were many things abut us that also caused the divorce.
2026-09-21 20:22:19
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fordhamjames :
The only true currency is loyalty.
2026-09-21 18:58:48
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. :
What if your divorce took a long time? My divorce took 18 months. Officially divorced 4 months now.
2026-09-23 12:09:25
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Clemson Karma 🏈 :
Totally agree! I did it just like you said. ♥️
2026-09-21 20:35:46
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Bobby Hannah :
I did
2026-09-21 21:57:59
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themanonthemountain :
Couple of things. Super general rule of thumb are good. Don’t date or get married u til you are your own best friend…… and healthy men will wait!
2026-09-22 02:09:58
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jeremyhunsaker :
I’m in crazy town now. About 6 weeks. I doubt I’m getting out of crazy town in a year. Feels impossible most days
2026-09-23 03:43:21
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Katrina Benson | Midlife Lab🪷 :
agreed! there is a lot to be said on how to live by ourselves in peace!
2026-09-22 20:19:25
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LovedbyGod :
Men will wait , I been divorced for two years and still single
2026-09-23 09:37:31
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igobynyia :
Girl I’ve been separated for 2+ yrs, I think I’m more aware. Definitely not ready for a serious relationship. Should I still wait? 😭
2026-09-23 12:09:10
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DejaVoo :
im in month 1 after the sad attempts at separation for a few years out of 25 yrs.. I am in crazy town.. my emotions could never talk to someone right now
2026-09-22 21:40:59
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megan_rm :
Someone should have told my ex husband! He had a three year affair and they’re still together… started bringing her around our kids before divorce was final. She was married too and is going through her own divorce. A romance straight out of a hallmark movie!
2026-09-22 10:12:01
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Jeremy :
it's been over 2 years.. don't see myself dating anyone anytime soon - signed, an atypical man
2026-09-22 13:54:45
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andrewcompton20 :
dating..yuck lol. After being blindsided by betrayal..no thanks. Ill just focus on my children and hoping that they never find out what happened.
2026-09-22 17:08:33
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