The literal only reason psychologically u would feel childish with your natural hair is if u haven’t regularly worn it since u were a child
2026-09-21 07:33:05
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irtartistry73 :
It’s because they were children the last time they wore and embraced their natural hair
2026-09-25 09:15:20
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Cherella Gooding :
Off I go ✌🏾
2026-09-21 06:12:36
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Rayne :
mine makes me feel so feminine and classy.
2026-09-21 05:13:41
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Lmao :
I feel like it definitely effects how you carry yourself
2026-09-21 05:15:47
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ellek :
They've decided that natural hair equals immaturity, lack of self respect, and indecency. Speak on it!
2026-09-21 14:15:28
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Mattis :
Love the space you create to have these conversations. So much of the focus is on what we do and how we style instead of why we do it? How does it make us feel? Where does it come from?
2026-10-09 15:12:50
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PEACHY :
I love my natural hair 😊 and I enjoy doing my own etc and doing his simple routine my hair has been thriving always elegant never childish ! A real self confidence women wear their natural hair 😍
2026-09-21 06:40:43
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Animesidechick :
I’m trying to get better at wearing it. I remember at school people kept telling me I look like a men 😭
2026-09-21 07:00:19
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Caydence ★ ˚⋆ :
I’m 21 with braces so every time I wear my natural hair people think I’m 17 but honestly I’d rather that then someone saying I look 25 bc my natural hair be cuteeeee
2026-09-21 13:10:01
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🍀 :
I love my natural hair🥰
2026-09-21 03:45:47
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Kendra❣️ :
I’m 29 and people think I’m 19 with my natural hair 🙃
2026-09-23 15:51:20
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GirlSlim21 :
I used to get that a lot from women. They said I looked liked a kid. 1st thank you I’m trying to look young lol. 2nd I got so many compliments from black men especially in South Carolina. I loved my twists. Heck even with my microlocs I wear them in braided and band most days. I go out daily with them in. People have to stop worrying about how people will see them.
2026-09-21 03:43:10
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i1 :
Very well said!!!
2026-09-21 04:40:08
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myburneracc :
It’s sad that many BW associate growing into a woman with hiding and neglecting our natural hair. We should learn *more* about how to pour into our health and natural beauty as we get older, fully stepping into our unique beauty.
2026-09-21 08:26:45
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Neesh :
we have trauma *jazz hands* my coworkers complement straight hair which is annoying but I usually interview in straight hair then hit them with the afro😂
2026-09-21 09:45:43
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user565678s :
I see where they are coming from, but to me looking young is a gift! People chase fountains of youth and we don’t even need one!
2026-09-21 13:03:05
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🪽 :
i wish i was confident enough in my really short afro (recently did a big chop) 😭 i love afro hair in general which is why i got a kinky crochet rn but i sorta feel like a fraud, does anyone have any tips?
2026-09-21 08:15:46
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Erin..NotAaron :
What isn’t normal is seeing women with natural hair or styles being admired. It’s not seen on TV, entertainment or professional spaces. We’re the first generation embracing our natural hair. So it will take time to heal from this.
2026-09-23 13:25:57
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Layah :
I will say this I had to unlearn this and now I see it from a different perspective. Our natural hair doesn’t make us look childish BUT it does bring a different type of youth out of us. It’s something about our natural hair that just brings everything out
2026-09-23 15:32:59
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YolandaYevette :
My only qualm with my natural hair is i don't like alot of definition, but I also don't wanna be a cotton ball. Ive never felt "childish" with my hair. idk bout all that
2026-09-23 16:42:19
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Lorika :
Never thought I looked childish with my hair😊. More refreshed, yes.
2026-09-21 11:19:46
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