@thesydneyfinn: Replying to @michelleesnm #relationshipadviceforwomen #datinginyour30s #situationship #datingadvice #relationships

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being in a situationship is like woman's version of guy in a friemdzome hoping she changes her mind.

Rougela :

Every day I wake up and somebody has to explain to people that they have agency

😊 :

only you are in the situationship btw the other person doesn't call it anything lol

Ian Muir :

you don't understand. I really like this guy who clearly doesn't like me, but if I go along with the situation long enough I can change him into somebody who loves me and he will dump those other women and be exclusive with meeeeeee!

<3 :

yeah exactly, idk why people act like a man forced them in a situationship…just leave.

luna ⎕ :

“situationship” and 9/10 times one of them said they don’t want a relationship and the other person is delusional 💀😭

Kazookid3 :

People catch feelings and suddenly pretend the other person didn't set boundaries about not wanting anything serious

Troy🆓🇵🇸🇨🇩🇸🇩 :

Literally any situationship:

LaTanya Houston :

I hate that word. It’s literally just the whole “friends with benefits” thing rebranded!

alyyy ♡ :

my situationship literally told me if i’m not happy i can leave….like wait a minute! you’re right!!!

Eva 🌻 :

I swear some people don’t seem to realise they have actual agency in their own lives

Maladaptive_daydreamer :

The nice thing about a situationship is you don’t even need to dump them you’re not in a relationship just stop talking to them

tbao. :

Stopped apologizing for having boundaries thanks to "The Peace You Keep Giving Away" by Claire Morgan

9layers_ :

like why is it not considered self-harm

🫩 :

I feel like this is simplifying how complicated and messy situationships CAN be 😅 it’s not always just “friends with benefits”

Shawn Hammond :

I was in a relationship, she was in a situationship I guess. I dont even think I know what that word means

Forever ☭ Starcrossed :

Worse part is that they know they can leave. It's just not what they want to hear because it makes them sad.

Ally 🌼 :

I feel this as an older and wiser woman but I feel in my early 20's I was sometimes manipulated into these kinds of relationships and that's exactly why these dudes prey on women who don't know any better yet

charles❕ :

BAELISH :

they always act like they're under some kind of spell that compels them to be in it

EtienneBismarck :

The term Situationship annoys me. Who ever thought that was a good idea.

Uncle Ruckus :

People that don’t understand that they can just leave creep me out. Cause what do you mean you’re choosing to stay around someone that’s irritating the fuck out of you

Lalalamba :

its a prison of low self worth

Julia🍒 :

“You don’t KNOW until youuuu are IN IT” no im just an adult