Asa_irene :
It’s funny how everyone is seeing this from one angle. Let me not say anyone is wrong, but I think there’s another way to look at it. If you watch the video closely, you can tell that this man stayed up all night just to be able to talk to her. From the look of things, they’re in different time zones, so he adjusted his time just to match hers. He called, she didn’t return the call. He sent a message, she saw it and didn’t reply, but she was still viewing his status. To me, that doesn’t automatically make him obsessive. I think he simply misses what they used to have. He even mentioned that there was a time they used to stay up all night talking, and then suddenly she became distant. We don’t know what happened behind the scenes or whether there’s someone else involved because that part wasn’t shown. But imagine being in a relationship with someone you used to talk to constantly, and all of a sudden you can’t reach that person anymore. You call, no response. You message, no response. Naturally, you’re going to start wondering, “What happened? Did I do something? Why has this person suddenly changed?” Sometimes that’s not obsession; that’s confusion and concern. If you no longer want the relationship, just say it clearly: “I’m no longer interested. I don’t want to continue this.” Let the person know where they stand so they can accept it, move on and face front. You can’t suddenly withdraw from someone you were once very close to and then call them obsessive when they start wondering why you’re acting differently. Communication matters.
2026-09-21 19:57:50