Graxi.eee :
I was 19, turning 20, when I met him on a dating app, and he was 25 at that time. I’m 21 now, and he’s 27. I met him in December 2024, and our relationship was only supposed to be casual. Even though being in a casual relationship was somehow against what I wanted because I had always believed in “date to marry,” I still agreed, and honestly, I don’t even know why I tried it back then—maybe I was just bored or curious. Even though it was casual, we met four times, with our last meeting being in January 2026, and as time passed, our communication continued until May 2026, making it 1 year and 4 months, so of course, somewhere along the way, I fell for him. To cut the story short, I was already preparing for my final exams as a third-year VetMed student when he decided to end our communication, and the timing really hurt because I still had exams to focus on, but I remember crying so much while trying to keep myself together. Sadly, I also failed to meet the required GWA for retention at my previous school, and after everything that happened, my parents told me to continue pursuing VetMed in Cebu, especially since both of us are from Mindanao. When I posted a note saying that I was moving to Cebu, he messaged me after a month of not reaching out and asked why I was going to Cebu and what had happened, so I told him everything, and he felt guilty for ending things with me during the most difficult time, saying that I was too kind and good to him and that he regretted what he had done. He asked if my decision was really final because he wanted to become a better person and fix what we had, but I told him that my decision was already final and there was nothing he could do anymore; he then admitted that he couldn’t handle an LDR, which was why he didn’t pursue me, and said that if we both became successful someday, maybe there could still be a chance for us. Even after that, he continued viewing my MyDays and sometimes heart-reacting to them, but last week, while scrolling through Facebook, I saw a girl on my “People You May Know” list, and something about her caught my attention, so I looked her up and eventually saw that she and him had been together in July.
2026-09-22 15:52:07