@astoldbyindie: Your preference for white boys was not created because a couple black boys rejected you 15 years ago… let’s just start unpacking and unlearning. ##racism##dating##swirl##whiteboys##fyp

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glossy798
Glossie💋 :
Yes I’m skinny, well spoken and dark skin. And YEA black guys make fun of it but white guys dont. Why don’t yall get it?
2026-09-21 13:10:15
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notherelong11
Relax. :
Sometimes dr umar cooks
2026-09-21 13:19:55
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bot262002
♧ :
they in the comments like😭😭😂
2026-09-21 17:38:16
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henriettalh
henny :
I go where I'm appreciated- PERIOD
2026-09-21 17:10:53
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_tnola
Toni :
Both sides be killing me with that lmaoooooo
2026-09-21 13:19:45
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lena0404.23
lena :
I know you are not talking about her but fannita was saying this same exact thing couple days ago too and its like be be serious like be real here, white men sometimes put weight limits in prenups thats how fatphobic some of them are .. but yall wanna say they are less fatphobic than black men ? 💀 .. okay.
2026-09-21 12:39:09
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thefxedeffect
Ashlynn Gabrielle 🌻 :
When I was big living in suburbia white boys were so mean to me, I started looking for Black people and they LOVED ME REAL BAD, they didn’t call me fat they called me THICK AMEN 😭😭😭
2026-09-21 13:39:48
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favorflaa
favor :
and it’s the fact that rejection from black ppl leads to the immediate glamorization of white men and their treatment. like you didn’t move to any other minority group. the rejection didn’t just make you want to seek outside your race, but specifically within the most oppressive race. like i don’t believe that.
2026-09-21 14:55:02
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cinnamonbun1160
Jada🩵 :
I believe her but it’s bcuz it’s rooted in them thinking she was easier not more attractive
2026-09-21 14:55:24
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mwaffles74
🌸weird_girl🌸 :
It was actually old white man who wanted me🫩
2026-09-21 16:22:49
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krystenrittersbangs
krystenrittersbangs :
free my sistas in these comments lord…
2026-09-21 22:16:13
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theallisynirene
theallisynirene :
It certainly goes both ways. men are MEN.
2026-09-21 16:17:09
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kml1423
kml152 :
I got approached waaaay more often by white men and even asian men than black men and i know its because of where i live, what i look like and what i choose to wear. I didn't swear off all black men but knew numbers why I had a better chance at a relationship if was I didn't make a race a factor. I think anyone who fails to meet the beauty standard of their own race will often date interracially. Even someone as unbelievably gorgeous as Lucy Liu said she was considered too masculine / tan / ugly for Chinese media and men. White women who weigh over 150 lbs constantly get told well black guys would like you. You see it with black women as well Venus and Serena Williams, Whoopi Goldberg, Gabourey Sidibe. They were relentlessly, cruelly mocked for not fitting the black beauty standard why would anyone be surprised they went where they were wanted 🤷🏽‍♀️i think her response was ineloquent but I understand the underlying message.
2026-09-21 14:41:27
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joolieannie
Jools Lebron :
LIES WERE TOOD
2026-09-21 12:26:31
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danathoand
Flowerchildnay :
Nobody likes me so gotcha there lmaooooo
2026-09-21 15:06:58
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blackcherryparadises
❤️‍🔥 :
Youre not wrong. I relate to fannitas experience though. In school the white boys who didn’t want me because fat or black just ignored. The black boys are who went out of their way to be cruel. I went to therapy to unpack that though lmaooo
2026-09-21 14:12:40
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heeyitsstacey
Stacey Jane :
my dating preferences is United Nations. She just needs to admit that the Black boys she had access to did want her. Because I have had that. Then white boys in my town very much ignore me. When I got to college with a larger pool of men of all demographics I realized I was not ugly, I was just in a small pool
2026-09-21 16:38:06
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grasshopper.101
Grasshopper :
eh I like what I like 😂
2026-09-21 23:57:04
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bodybutterroll
Gooshiegoo :
Word. All men treated me weird growing up and until college. Now in the work force they look and linger
2026-09-21 14:15:25
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indigenousness222
stash :
how some of y'all looking in the comments 🤣
2026-09-21 19:14:36
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icykeyboard.1
ICY🧊KEYBOARD⚛️ :
The idea “they didn’t like me” also makes no sense you aren’t a mind reader so you don’t know who likes you or not 😭
2026-09-21 16:12:52
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marciacarty2
Marcia🇺🇸 :
I know what you're talking about
2026-09-21 12:33:42
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dookie_brain
syl :
what the original video i’m confused
2026-09-21 13:54:28
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qweenleo84
BigRedd07 :
Let’s just all GO WHERE WE ARE APPRECIATED AND CELEBRATED 🥰🥰
2026-09-21 20:45:56
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loki.man658
loki Man :
😂 let her cook
2026-09-21 17:50:05
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