@modern.parenting: I wrote this one down because the answer he needed wasn't a pep talk, it was a pattern he could run when his brain went blank. What would you say differently? Let's talk about it below 👇
Always ask questions. Nothing people like to talk about more than themselves. Just take note of the answers, because later they think youre so sweet to know that about them 😂
2026-09-24 02:57:45
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Just Me :
Being interested in others - curiosity for understanding - is connection. Knowing them and seeing them for who they are shows care, interest, and kindness! It works in so many spaces!
2026-09-26 06:27:51
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nada1990 :
Exactly. Treat her like a human being that you want to be friends with. That IS how it should start.
2026-09-25 01:26:21
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mbow808 :
This would actually annoy the hell out of me 😂😭but I'm some one who loathes talking in general...this would feel like a damn interview
2026-09-24 03:46:24
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Linda :
Lol, "Good dont say those"
2026-09-24 20:11:48
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lactrn4 :
Works for MANY situations. Want to be interesting?? Be interested….. Ask questions. People love to talk about themselves.
2026-09-25 07:12:43
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Red River :
16, ' (1)Are you Going b to College, (2)Whats Your Major, (3)whats your plans on income after High school, goals. - Pick any question to get started. No answer Move on, Not Your Turn.
2026-09-24 22:08:14
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feral raccoon 🚑 EMT :
I know some young men who may get great value from this book! 🙏🏼
2026-09-23 19:18:33
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Blackhawk_Crewchief :
Another good read for fathers, Raising A Modern-Day Knight, by Robert Lewis.
2026-09-29 18:04:43
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Bibbidi-Bobbidi-Bullsht :
People, both men and women, love to be seen as interesting. Giving your attention and curiosity to somebody is flattering. By being able to read the body languages, you can see if the person is accepting your flattery or not. It’s a subtle way of gently saying no thank you. It doesn’t mean never, but it could be that the timing is just not working out for that individual right now. This is solid advice and actually reflects kindness. This can be used for pursuit of romantic relationships, or even expanding your professional Network. Typically in a professional environment people are a little bit more direct, but not always. This is good advice.
2026-09-27 16:55:43
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Giyu Tomioka :
Every important relationship I’ve ever had started on the dance floor.
2026-09-24 15:04:34
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Beth :
Yes!
2026-09-26 16:21:25
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Mallory Knox :
he can also answer her questions so they can connect
2026-09-27 19:28:08
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MommyMoon :
I am a widow and my 13 year old is amazing. I want to help the best I can so I guess I need to start with books like this. I am sad that my son doesn't have his dad for what's on the horizon but hopeful for whatever comes.
2026-09-28 01:09:34
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Marlo Piper Westerlu :
Is there a girl one?
2026-09-26 21:19:02
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Heaven💜nEarth :
Great Dad
2026-09-27 03:50:11
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Anonymous :
Girl dad here and Im writing all of this down😂 Im a man and I dont believe in nice guys
2026-09-26 05:37:29
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PatL :
I’m reposting. 🌻
2026-09-25 19:26:39
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SirMixALotAndHisPeeps :
Holy Shit, this is incredible, wish I would have had a resource like this when I was young, I had no game…
2026-10-04 01:13:10
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jiggleswife723 :
I
2026-09-23 23:12:06
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BalancingAct69 :
exactly. just find out about her. and share you when she asks you a question.
2026-09-25 02:13:05
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anthapoet :
nah , just tell them youre unemployed and ask about their credit amd if they can pick you up . all the baddies get locked down that way 😅
2026-09-26 01:37:33
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allisonlane209 :
😂😂😂
2026-09-26 18:35:34
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