100%. The support is endless until they drop you and pretend you never existed
2026-09-21 13:30:12
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swampy455 :
And the minute you leave you never hear from any of them ever again
2026-09-21 18:57:41
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John Trujillo :
i served faithfully, volunteered and attended regularly. When my wife died, only one person supported me. The rest disappeared.
2026-09-22 17:21:41
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Noah Hester :
I’m very sorry that ever happened to you. But always keep in mind that the church is made up of imperfect people trying to serve a perfect God! Don’t put faith in the church put faith in GOD
2026-09-23 02:18:48
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AmyDawnPope :
In my experience the support was bottomless until I actually needed support and then suddenly oh well
2026-09-22 13:26:10
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Nature44 :
You disagree one time and the love quickly becomes conditional
2026-09-23 02:49:30
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Endglobaltrafficking :
Conditional and transactional
2026-09-22 17:05:27
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yayammksure :
No different than corporate work.
2026-10-01 17:40:28
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cowabunga.breeze :
It’s because people don’t understand that serving can’t save you. No matter the capacity. Only Jesus. A continuous improving relationship with the lord is what will save you
2026-09-22 18:33:41
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mscandy1982 :
they don't even check in
2026-09-22 10:57:56
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Lauren Wanamaker :
The love is conditional
2026-09-21 14:11:11
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Gigi❀ :
Exactly, and that’s why I left! I love Jesus with all my heart, but it’s a no for me.
2026-09-22 20:48:01
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Shauna Marie🌺 :
We left the church system 6 years ago it was the best decision we have ever made. We follow Jesus of Nazareth the God of Abraham Isaac and Jacob
2026-09-29 02:03:05
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Checking in on you 😆😆😆 I got a whole divorce and not one person stopped by to check in on me. I’m fine now though, but at the same time that opened my eyes.
2026-10-04 19:30:47
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woncandy :
Or they love the money and status you bring…. It’s a deadly place
2026-09-22 12:21:45
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yisroelkorey5 :
Dude! You’ve hit it dead on the spot!!!!!
2026-09-22 20:09:30
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pecker :
and judge you more than your next door neighbors.
2026-09-22 00:18:57
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Violet🌙Ray :
i didn't even get a pat on the back when I was serving for 10 years lol
2026-09-22 20:00:14
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Galewinds :
Yep!!!!! I was a worship leader for 15 years and 17 years in full time ministry. As soon as I woke up and left, nobody would speak to me about why I left.
2026-09-23 15:33:22
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Eli Chapmenn :
My wife and I lived every word of this post.
2026-09-22 19:44:58
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Rivalry Tees :
And if you keep giving them money. The biggest givers get the most attention.
2026-10-11 18:56:45
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The Rebuker :
Sadly, this is true with the majority of churches. I’m in a process of leaving a church now. I’m not sure what I am going to do next.
2026-10-01 16:14:24
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The Daily Scoop 🇯🇲 :
This!!!!!!
2026-09-24 00:26:49
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