@daniellegrobman: am i the problem? Be honest: is it A) just my friend — she’s a sweetheart and kept the social peace B) normal here to treat people like humans regardless of the past C) me being the issue and people everywhere do this Because this isn’t the first time I’ve seen this type of interaction: 2 people who don’t particularly like each other have, what I deem to be, a civilized/healthy/almost positive and pleasant interaction (despite not liking/respecting the other person) #cultureshock #spanishculture #girlhood #socialdynamics #dailythoughts

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nizar._11235
Nizar :
The difference between politeness and naivety is reciprocity
2026-10-28 13:18:23
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ilidiocarmona0
ilidiocarmona0 :
keep your friends close but your enemys closer.....how can u enjoy their downfall if u are not in the loop?
2026-09-21 13:40:11
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imholdingthisgay
Nerea🎃 :
Es muy común hacerlo pero por educación. Nos enseñan que se saluda a la gente que conoces, pero cada vez este tipo de situaciones se va dejando de hacer. También es cierto que se puede hacer por simple cotilleo de saber cómo le va la vida a esa persona, porque en España somos MUY cotillas jajajajaja
2026-09-21 14:16:17
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manumorlob
Manu Moreno :
Tha is called "cotilleo", we live for it and we fake it to get it xD
2026-09-22 06:32:27
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mochidanii
Mochi☆〜(ゝ。∂) :
Um no , that friend is just fake😭
2026-09-21 16:07:33
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_hijadeares_
⦻ Lucifer ❤️💛💜 :
that's... not universal???
2026-09-23 00:36:46
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heartubeatu9
HeartuBeatu :
Only explanation is that she is actually friends with one of them, and had to act polite with the other. If that is not the case I don't understand why would she even had that little catch up moment.
2026-09-23 13:04:16
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spideyfan005
no :
we have this type of interactions with our worse enemy just to have news to offer our friends about the person we collectively hate
2026-09-21 17:12:42
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user4866856824097
user4866856824097 :
it doesn't sound like your friend was polite, but more 2-faced
2026-09-21 13:45:02
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tapioshu
♱ :
i’d say it’s not so much because of being polite but because we are really nosy lol
2026-09-21 15:31:26
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mar.ta.ru.bio
mar.ta.ru.bio :
Yeah… I mean we tend to be socially polite (if she had been alone though it probably would’ve gotten an evil look and been ignored)!
2026-09-26 07:23:57
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nicky_was_taken
Nicky :
In the Netherlands I know a lot of people who still talk regularly to people they actually don't like because it's too much drama to stop being friends. But I'm also still in highschool, so that might be a contributing factor
2026-09-21 14:07:13
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alke211
Alke :
Honestly, i wouldn't call that being polite, but fake. That being said, i would probably end up doing the exact same thing...
2026-09-21 16:24:47
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luna_luada
luna :
my school bully stopped me to have a chat with me. she acted like she never bullied me. she asked me how I was doing she told me how she was doing, I responded and all this with a smile on our faces. like nothing happened.I dont like confrontations,and I just know I am never going to see her again.
2026-09-21 14:52:34
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ajlsf
ALMAD :
the first one
2026-09-21 14:30:42
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grjwie96
haha bier :
didn't you have a simular issue in the Netherlands?
2026-09-21 13:53:01
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olaquepongoxdddd
ꀭꂦꈤꍏꌩ🏵️ :
normallllll
2026-10-20 18:36:56
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claramoscoso9
claramoscoso9 :
Hahahahhah, defenetly spain😂😂
2026-09-29 19:47:29
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librasunleorising
libra babe✨ :
your friend is kind of fake. that would never be me😅
2026-09-21 14:59:47
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fonteya_
fonteya :
you were by her side, the other girl also wanted to be polite because you were there. so, if she was alone she would have ignored her
2026-09-21 19:01:11
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amayaaa921
AMAYAAA :
yeah were like that and If u live un a tonw its worse
2026-10-24 08:39:38
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josicoperezzz5
Josicoperezzz :
That’s not a Spanish thing. Is a person thing. A lot of people in Spain would react as you said
2026-09-24 10:21:36
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lelailab
Lelaila :
no bc my husband is colombian and he'll have the friendliest conversation ever with someone and then come to find out they're like mortal enemies 😭 im like why even talk to them at all lol??? but I dont think its us being a-holes, and think we're just not fake lol
2026-09-21 16:35:03
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ceciliajtg
Ces! :
[Risa disimulada] mean girl vibes?
2026-10-03 15:28:56
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