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alexbrandon456 :
Still don’t understand why some women and girls don’t realise that putting your future husband in unnecessary debt is going to ruin your quality of life financially.
2026-09-21 16:29:16
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Asmaa :
unfortunately they’re not ready for this convo lol
2026-09-21 19:13:01
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Bee 🐝 :
I have sooooo much to add to this!!! I don’t think people understand or even care tbh. They want what they want, at any cost
2026-09-21 15:57:45
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Nuur-omni 🤍 :
The fact that people are dragging her for this is wild. Wanting to start your marriage without drowning in debt should not be a controversial take 😭😭😭
2026-09-21 15:50:25
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kuraawe1 :
if she wants you she will make it easy for you, you don’t have to spend 50k
2026-09-21 18:07:54
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Sunshine :
50 k On a wedding I would pocket that and use like 2k max for the wedding
2026-09-21 16:43:53
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🤍 :
Even more controversial take but it’s just marriage? Why are u spending so much on marrying someone? Spend that money on something more worthwhile like a long haul flight, hajj, gold, a library or something
2026-09-21 18:23:14
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mc. :
Me on my way to make dua for you. Cause this is big Factsss. capitalism is cooking my people
2026-09-21 17:04:15
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🚿🦑 :
Spending more then 3k on a wedding doesn’t make sense to me
2026-09-21 19:36:02
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Zaiii🌧️ :
Couldn’t agree more!!!! The girlies are delulu. Only a very small proportion of men are making big money (let’s say £100k+ a year, or have a successful business) and can comfortably afford to pay for EVERYTHING in London/UK. If women think they won’t spend a penny and have a big wedding, honeymoon, all the extra wedding events, furnish a home and have babies here when their husband is on an average wage they are actually not living on this planet. Yes of course the man should pay the rent or the majority cost of the wedding party but that’s just 25% of costs, there are soooo many things that doesn’t take into consideration. Your own special outfits, makeup, hosting family, soodoonis, bills, furniture of your choice etc like you simply have to have your own money too. Even if you don’t spend it you cannot rely on a man in this day and age to make you happy and buy everything you want.
2026-09-21 17:10:05
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Sundus :
Nahh you spittinnnn sis!! We are out here focusing on if he can afford a big wedding or not but how bout the real crisis of finding a good god fearing man
2026-09-22 07:24:23
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wardasbubble :
Dang who is this diva spitting fact like making marriage easy I get it but what about my fantasy wedding
2026-09-21 22:09:04
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Naima :
I would rather pay sadakha and have small gatherings with family and close friends it’s not worth it all these expenses, even though it’s nice.
2026-09-22 02:54:25
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z27 :
I think it’s als a lack of creativity when it comes to how to have a nice wedding. Everyone wants the same three venues in London and they all cost the same amount.
2026-09-21 17:12:14
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mayshallot :
This shouldn’t be a controversial take. Rather spend that buying a home.
2026-09-21 19:13:28
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Xaji-Qadar :
Please keep preaching that perspective, it’s been made hard to even approach a lady in fear of what she may ask😅😅
2026-09-22 04:36:58
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Matan :
Too late for me but we both regretted going all out but we have recovered. We were young and naive. I WOULD HIGHLY ADVISE TO LISTEN TO HER PLEASE
2026-09-21 19:47:12
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thatgirlhibaq :
I don’t want a wedding but just know my mehr is a satin black m5
2026-09-21 18:36:27
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Faduma Osman | Bipolar+ADHD 🧠 :
Too many unrealistic expectations nowadays.
2026-09-21 18:48:16
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MJ :
thank u for finally being real😂😂😂
2026-09-21 20:52:48
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Et si :
Icl id rather him give me gold than a big weddingggg cuz Imajine how much that gold worth gon be in years (plus my older sister’s husband literally buys her gold and she literally saves those gold for her sons to pay for their meher i’a)
2026-09-21 19:34:19
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isra.h20 :
Literallyyy some people care more about getting validation from their besties and family than actually marrying for the sake of Allah like there’s nothing wrong with wanting a soft life, cute wedding and honeymoon babe but why spend sooo much just to impress people?? And choosing a honeymoon over Hajj is kinda crazy to me idk 😭🤷♀️😬
2026-09-21 17:35:38
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Umm3 :
Just have a small wedding and go on holiday. You shouldn’t have to spend so much money
2026-09-21 18:22:13
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