@allie_voss: Having a village means not holding the people around you to an impossibly high standard. Sometimes there’s not a perfect thing to say, that doesn’t mean that you don’t have people who love you.

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mimimi21220
Mimi :
A village also doesnt automaticaly appear when you need it, if you made no effort to maintain it
2026-09-21 17:39:05
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sullins_
sullins_ :
Assuming the best in people is a life changing thought. Every single time I have an encounter that makes me mad, irritating, annoyed etc. I just assume the best in that person. They cut me off because they are trying to get home to en emergency, they over stepped x because I wasn’t clear and they wanted to help, they hurt my feelings on accident and didn’t mean to. I reframe and let go. It’s a life changing experience
2026-09-21 19:27:36
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kingofrex
Thetorontonerd :
Sometimes this is all we need to hear :
2026-09-21 20:17:44
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sam.aussie.tradbo
Sam - Aussie Tradbow :
I had to remind myself of this. Moved to a new town and thought my neighbours were a bit weird and I’m ashamed to say my wife and I gossiped about them in a negative way. But then it hit me that yes they are different but we’re the new ones in their neighbourhood, they all say hello and smile at us, they’ve volunteered their resources to us, and we just talked about them like we’re royalty. They’re my neighbours, they’re weird, I love them.
2026-09-21 21:08:15
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joeybfree
joeybfree :
As someone who’s been disabled for fifteen years- yeah. Most people don’t know what to say and frankly I wouldn’t either - I also don’t know what to say
2026-09-22 04:26:07
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austincbeeman
Austin Beeman | Wine + Travel :
You have to have people that love you and also disagree with everything you believe in. Without that you have a cult not a community.
2026-09-21 22:53:15
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csnfar
Tyler Sift :
it's not about the perfect thing only, a person's imperfections can reveal some of their character, for example someone who redirects to themselves and their feelings a lot (self referential ig) tend to throw you under the bus for their convenience. you're point is right but also the line between potential bad character and honest mistakes is blurry? idk I'm just rambling atp
2026-09-22 17:05:23
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catscoffins
MyNameIsCat :
If it can be interpreted as 'wow man, that sucks' chances are that person was trying ❤️❤️
2026-09-21 17:26:32
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thatgenzwife
grace kraemer :
AMEN!! it sucks when someone say something hurtful or insensitive but being isolated during suffering is worse. and yes, sometimes suffering reveals who secretly was never really in your corner and who would kick you while you’re down, but a lot of the people imperfectly trying to love you are going to mess up, just like you’re going to probably unknowingly mess up at some point. i’ve honestly started to think that people on social media today wouldn’t *actually* want a village if they knew what all a village entailed
2026-09-21 19:58:58
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elektrikmaus
elektricky :
Having a village is about everyone being up in your business all the time. You don’t like it? Go live in town😎❤️
2026-09-22 10:41:23
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bv_347
BV347 :
Women ask "where is my village?" when they spent 12 years building coroporation
2026-09-22 09:58:28
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hhhao8884
Hhhao888 :
You’re keeping people in a loop of being disrespected and traumatized. Not healthy. Not Godly.
2026-09-24 16:53:00
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moderatelymoira
Moderately Moira :
The Offended Generation 😆
2026-09-22 00:37:40
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myfourseven
My Forte :
I have these weird dreams about God asking me to save 50 people and those people are allowed to chose 5 people to save, but if they choose the same person it still counts. A huge chain link. And it drives me crazy. And I think I might choose you just because I think you’re pretty smart. I have like 40 people I need to save. So the other 10 needs to be super random. The thing that makes it hard is that, you don’t know who is already said.
2026-09-21 22:00:14
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lizaswallace
Liza✨ :
💯💯💯
2026-09-22 22:44:08
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averageworkingclasstrash
hello :) :
"Just relax and stop being so sensitive" is classic asshole behavior. You're so emotionally stunted and unintelligent, you're unable to change anything about your behavior, so you just beg everyone else to accomodate you instead. Classic American
2026-09-21 17:25:04
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