It’s called being a gentleman. After a few dates and trust begins it’s appropriate for the lady to offer. No harm in splitting entrees if the vibe is good at some point making it budget friendly for either especially if the dish is on larger side
2026-09-25 02:00:55
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Belinda Jayne :
Chivalry is the way to win a woman...50/50 does not work...
2026-09-22 04:18:09
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regan_elizabeth5 :
Man always pays
2026-09-23 02:58:54
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SuzK :
a lot of men don't let the women pay. I usually offer every 2-3. dates. I resent the ones that let me for instance they buy large lattes, I buy small. their dinners always cost more than mine. plus they order beers I order water. women like old fashion men that pay. But women should invite him over for dinner once in awhile.
2026-09-23 11:26:06
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colleenq54 :
Yes I dated a guy and he paid the whole bill ! If a man asks a woman out he pays the bill !
2026-09-22 04:10:43
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Carla Martin :
how horrible
2026-09-24 14:12:13
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S h a w n :
If you wanna go Dutch, make sure you establish that before you go out. I went on a date, when the bill came he says "split it" I audibly laughed. Ive never been so markedly unimpressed by something so trivial on my dating adventures
2026-09-22 00:36:08
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lau :
hell No . old school men pay for everything. don't want to be rude but I think if people can't afford dates . Just don't do that. is BS 50/50 that's not a date .in that case people should go out with the buddies to split the bill . not for a date.
2026-09-23 07:14:00
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Christie :
Wow. You just lost me. I guess I’m just old-fashioned, which is why I don’t even bother getting disappointed.
2026-09-22 23:34:58
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kmbrlysndrz :
Really? What is the expectation? First date? Should I offer to pay my half? If he asks me out?
2026-09-21 23:32:11
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jennnydianne :
Why did you think that ? Did yall talk about it? I’m confused. You asked her out right ?
2026-09-24 11:20:38
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Patti Lingle :
I think that's an unspoken expectation.
2026-09-24 14:21:17
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lynnhansler :
Best of luck.
2026-09-23 23:42:16
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michelley461 :
maybe just stay single..
2026-09-23 22:18:40
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ali_cat71❌ :
You don’t seem like you like Luna very much. 🤣
2026-09-21 21:26:42
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sixonescorpio :
Did you decide not to see her anymore because she didn’t pay or because you didn’t like her? Men TYPICALLY make more money (thanks to a number of reasons) does that matter? Reciprocity is important. I PREFER to pay my own because I can and since a lot of men think they pay = right to sex.
2026-09-24 00:37:40
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pippywip :
Mine too haha
2026-09-23 20:36:57
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Ella_living_life😇 :
Agreed 👍
2026-09-23 10:22:04
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💙 SUSAN 💙 :
No. No. No
2026-09-23 08:31:35
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Alyssa🧿 :
Why did you think she would pay for the date?? 😳 Absolutely not.
2026-09-23 02:22:01
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Sherry :
In my opinion, when I’ve been on dates, I’ve helped with the bill. I believe we both work so why should a man always pay.
2026-09-22 17:18:35
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Magdalen727 :
Why would you even mention who paid?? 🤔
2026-09-22 00:04:02
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valerieschroeder :
men asks out they pay ,woman asks out they pay, one pays one tips,take turns but establish that upfront first, old fashion the Man pays but that's me....
2026-09-21 22:30:24
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JeannieO :
I feel the same way about that long-distance shit after a while. It just gets boring. Hey it’s like a penpal thing. I wanna get to know somebody in my town, but I feel your pain, buddy. Mine is the same for one. It’s like hard to meet a decent man that’s not a drunk or druggie or doesn’t smell like an ashtray. I don’t smoke. I don’t drink. I don’t do drugs. I’ve been single I think 21 years now done some dating done some traveling for love, but I’m done with that. It’s all my money that’s went out. I don’t do it no more if I can’t meet someone here maybe that’s how a good Lord intended it but I know one thing I’mma be happy every day and nothing can stop me from that
2026-09-23 02:58:35
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Laura :
Back in the day when we were all younger and looking for “the person” did you ask a girl to split the bill?
2026-09-22 02:37:44
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