Chris Seiter
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Hey Siri :
I’m wondering if earth signs are more avoidant
2026-09-22 13:45:11
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therealnefertiti :
I really feel like people just need to go ahead and admit that this is a spectrum of attractiveness. It’s basically like level one is someone who is attracted to you and the level five people are people who are really not attracted to you. This behavior aligns with somebody who’s not that into you and there’s just a spectrum of how into you they are. If a person can lose you over being avoidant then that means that they are not that into you and you shouldn’t wanna get back with him or selfish anything. Relationships are hard enough without you trying to convince somebody that you’re worth liking just stick to dating people who actually like you back and they act like it all the time cause that means that person is really attracted to you and you have a better shot with them. No problem is it’s hard to find someone who is really attracted to you that you are also equally attracted to and these people who are labeled as avoidance know that they can’t find somebody that they really like to like them back so they just keep a roster full of people there’s somewhat attracted to on the back burner and they just keep cycling them in and out due to boredom.
2026-09-22 17:58:15
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Lauren :
This actually cleared up a lot of things for me. I know now that I need to let him go. He ghosted out of no where and we’ve been in no contact for over a month. I texted him the other day “thinking about you. Hope you’re well.” He left me on read. There is no salvaging this. He wants to be comfortable more than he wants me and I respect myself too much to wait on someone who can stand to lose me.
2026-09-22 15:55:43
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Shelly Hennessy :
I am so over dealing with my dismissive avoidant toxic abusive ex partner I can't even be bothered watching your whole video
2026-09-23 06:29:31
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Natattack_101 :
I watched my wife go from a 1 to a 5 in 2 months. I pushed and talked and talked and talked and wanted it to work. iv never seen her be like this is the 6 years of being together. we are talking about selling the house and are separated. if I give it some time and low pressure environment will she start to go back to normal or even reconsider the marrage
2026-09-22 20:28:44
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Sydney Lackey :
An avoidant is never meant for anyone unless they do the work.
2026-09-30 02:30:07
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Rose :
I got more anxious the more he became that 4/5. It ended horribly. So horribly. Restraining order horribly.
2026-09-22 16:02:12
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Lia :
Mine was definitely past 3. Dating other people has shown me how horribly wrong he was for me 🤦♀️
2026-09-22 17:42:32
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🕊HeartoftheDoveOfficial🕊 :
sick of being compartmentalized, Utility player and playing red light green light.
2026-09-24 01:57:57
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Just_Lindsey :
Whenever I build my spectrum I always place it opposite… AP on the right DA on the left. Haha.
2026-09-23 07:18:30
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JayDee :
Glad you said don’t go back cuz he’s a 4 to 5 DA and I wasn’t… NOPE!!!
2026-09-24 18:17:11
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tilldowepart :
I have this friend who disappears on a dime and we can go from messaging everyday for weeks then months of nothing. I noticed if he comes to me with an issue we’re having we talk about it immediately but if I do the same thing I wait days for a response that may just be a sentence expressing a sorry for being distant with no further engagement. It’s a little confusing as an anxious person, this was really insightful actually
2026-09-22 23:07:15
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Blacky999 :
What does it mean that he rejected me, saying that we were incompatible as a couple and that he wasn’t falling in love with me, but then somehow kept interacting with me and seeking me out? The last time he reached out to me, he wouldn’t leave the chat, he sent me photos of intimate things that I hadn’t asked for, and then, five days later, he told me that a woman made him feel things he hadn’t felt in years and that he genuinely liked her. He had only known her for 15 days. How the hell is that even possible? He’s currently with her, and it’s been about 12 days since he told me about this new relationship.
2026-09-22 16:38:28
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karnjitgill__ :
How can I have one on one with you
2026-09-22 14:11:05
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mimi :
avoid person not dating
2026-09-26 13:29:53
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djmanx210 :
thought us anxious knew that?
2026-09-22 14:23:43
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Chikableh :
Watching this as a fearful avoidant 🙃
2026-09-22 20:48:58
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ThatAwkwardBlonde 💋 :
But it’s a cycle. They can go 4 to 2 then 3 to 1 then back to 3, 4 and then 5 lol
2026-09-23 22:03:21
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Martin Vargas 5150 :
why do Avoidants waste people's time with relationships ? they should just stay single or only date eachother.
2026-09-22 14:54:13
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Valerie :
♥️♥️♥️
2026-09-22 12:54:08
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Estrella Martinez :
@Gabrielle Beatriz Pescott ✨
2026-09-22 13:25:10
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Cat :
😁😁😁
2026-09-22 14:34:57
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Danielle Spencer :
😂😂😂
2026-10-02 16:29:34
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