i’d rather it be destructive and know i fought until i couldn’t anymore than to just walk away from it even if it did end “happily”
2026-09-21 23:54:14
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Janedóttir :
Destructive attachment is an excellent way to put it!!
2026-09-23 19:45:05
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Pierre :
Breaking up on good terms makes it harder to cut ties
2026-09-24 18:29:35
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a_reading_scientist :
Broke up after 9 years, I left the next morning, haven’t seen him since, only ‘spoke’ to him through the property manager of the apartment about when I’d go back for my stuff. It’s funny that the one that does the breaking up is often the one who doesn’t leave the other alone…..
2026-11-05 19:04:17
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Loz :
It carried on for another 3 years after breakup without any label
2026-09-22 10:51:47
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Abdel.Le :
Way too late
2026-11-04 18:56:12
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Muddy :
I have had ONE breakup where I just never spoke to him again - even though I was deeply in love. I have never healed so quickly or completely. I am now a no contact advocate for life.
2026-09-22 10:48:23
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cristopher breaux :
my fyp is telling me different things and now i’m conflicted
2026-11-06 00:38:20
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20icecoldbeers :
its totally ok to remain friends afterwords as long as you can be mature and handle all your big feelings
2026-09-22 06:51:03
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Beatrice :
For how long?
2026-11-05 21:19:37
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Littlemissbunny :
After reading the comments, I have come to a conclusion that it’s different for everybody 😅
2026-09-29 18:57:25
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Riri :
Personally i disagree, had one breakup where we went no contact at all, 8 years ago, and i still feel chest pain whenever i think of him.. i know i moved on but its like parts of me stayed with him. didnt happen with other breakups where we kept talking afterwards and slowly got out of each others lives
2026-09-22 21:42:13
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midnight mystery🌙 :
then there's about 10 breakups after the actual one
2026-09-22 09:03:37
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maryam :
i stopped talking to him immediately after the break up and never talked to him again, its been two years and i still think about him almost daily lmao…
2026-09-23 11:33:11
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Mila :
As a collective, Culturally we made relationships so weird . With all these rules ect….no hate to ur video just assessing everything from a grand scale.
2026-09-23 17:30:47
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catarina_almada :
9:30. It’s to early for this.
2026-10-27 09:39:40
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bullwinkle35 :
unless you have kids together there is no reason to speak to them ever again. My exs could have dropped of the face of the earth and I wouldn't know or care.
2026-09-23 04:44:05
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Eric :
cant have a breakup without a break. Gotta step away to let yourself heal
2026-09-23 20:06:22
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Achmad Nabiel :
The timing is crazy
2026-09-24 13:11:03
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Not Your Regular Church Girl ✨ :
Thanks for this. Time to cut this boy off
2026-09-23 01:01:21
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Cassi :
We broke up and haven’t spoke. But my attachment is keeping the relationship alive in my brain. Rehearsing fake scenarios. How can I stop this? We don’t talk. I don’t check his socials. But I still think about him constantly.
2026-09-22 17:17:04
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Ch. :
We tried so hard to maintain a friendship that we where toxic to each other. It was a lesson to be learned, it’s ok to end things early and wait for a natural friendship later.
2026-09-22 16:59:33
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RyansWRLD₉⁹₉ :
Had a 2.5 year relationship end and we continued to say I love you daily for 4-5 months. It’s been no contact for 2 weeks maybe. It sucks. There’s no beating around the bush. I guess in the back of my mind the “what if things work out” will always sit there
2026-09-23 03:53:00
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jayy :
I’ve been trying, she keeps texting me. And we fall back in the same cycle. 💀
2026-09-22 16:01:34
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duckieduckduck🦆 :
I jst broke up with my gf for 5yrs yesterday, I made it clear that there's no going back but here I am still answering her calls🫥
2026-09-23 02:42:55
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