pregnancy? did nothing for me or the baby
we're 3 months now, still nothing.
when I say nothing, I mean NOT a damn THING
2026-10-09 02:55:16
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Naledi Mendi :
And I don't see a problem [Big LOL]
2026-10-09 03:45:31
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Katelynn🩷🤩 :
EXACTLY! HE LEFT THE SECOND I TOLD HIM I WAS PREGNANT HE WILL NEVERRRRR BE NO FATHER. No visits. No hellos no anything. This is not his baby no more
2026-10-09 10:20:11
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Casandra :
Ladies, if you aren't married, you have sole custody. You don't have to let him take the child unless there is a court order. Even if paternity its established. Custody and paternity are two different things.
2026-09-23 12:46:48
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Deeznuts!! :
100%. If a man cannot be there for the first three years, the mothers automatically have full custody.
2026-09-23 06:54:39
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E-she-ma :
I pray my baby never looks for his dad, it hurts to see everything I went through and he was never here.
2026-10-08 17:59:23
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Ideal.Mercy🌱 :
I'll never! infact he'll never see him❤️
2026-10-06 05:21:49
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Rayleen Marmolejo :
It’s not about us it’s bout our kids. My husband cheated while I was 8 months pregnant and left for the other women’s And I co parent because he’s their father and regardless of what he did to me he’s a good dad. My kids need their father
2026-09-23 03:27:23
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Diovanni21 🇵🇷 :
In general a guy can be a good dad and not want to be with you
2026-09-23 14:54:08
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viciousv14 :
Don't think that's your decision to make. If your child wants to know about father then let the child find out for themselves
2026-09-22 22:37:12
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thedollnamedjas :
Yall are ok with dads picking and choosing when to be a dad and that’s weird . He could’ve been there for the pregnancy without being with her. No one said a man has to be with the mother of his child but randomly deciding when to be a man and take care of ur responsibilities is soooo weird and bad for the child yet somehow it’s always the women’s fault.
2026-09-25 03:26:33
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Maboka :
If they come back they come back for the child please let them, because as much as we were hurt by their actions but do you know the feeling of yenning for the other parent😭just for the poor baby please let's do it. No matter what our children love them anyways 😏
2026-10-05 08:57:49
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Amanda🖤 :
The love for your child should by far outweigh the disdain you have for his father and by punishing him, you’re robbing a little boy of a parent.
2026-10-07 07:05:16
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U N O :
Sometimes the perfect family is just you and your kids.
2026-09-30 03:29:26
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Summer Dayyyy :
If he failed me while pregnant he already failed her.
2026-10-07 06:35:45
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Alison :
same here, never ever
2026-10-08 11:06:37
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Treasure island :
If I ever get financially stable, I will never call him for anything, but for now let me hold on
2026-10-05 08:44:07
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TTNANAAA💋 :
And fun fact it’s NOT being bitter
2026-09-25 14:54:32
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BumbleBriezy :
I think my Mom's biggest flex is she never took him for child support because she didn't want him to raise me. We've met and had lunch but I think my mom was right to do what she did.
2026-09-23 07:18:58
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Dione❣️ :
Caring for a child begins with pregnancy. He doesn’t have to love you but he needs to help make sure his kid has what it needs when it arrives. Not there during the pregnancy means no rights once it’s born
2026-09-27 18:10:11
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Thickiana :
I tried co-parenting with my bbyd after all he did…..I didn’t forgive,just want my son to know him dad……that man was never interested in bonding with his son….all he was after,was me
2026-09-23 12:52:58
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Notyourz1313 :
Thing is he abandoned me while pregnant to be with another woman - why does he have rights can’t I just not include him and be the only parent
2026-09-27 09:41:06
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𝒮𝒽𝒶𝓌𝓃𝓉ℯ𝓁𝓁🤍 :
I had no choice the judge signed a joint custody court order after 7 years of absence
2026-09-23 03:23:31
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LGonzaleswithanS :
If he is good to his child, that should be enough. We picked their fathers, they did not.
2026-09-24 02:18:51
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𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐡🎀🍒 :
Yall saying “that’s not how the law works” if you don’t go to court u don’t gotta do what they say and 100% if ur bd can abandon you while pregnant he’ll do the same when the baby is here!
2026-09-23 12:21:59
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