DrSusanSpicer
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Scarlettdaisy :
Covert or vulnerable narcissist are almost impossible to spot. And it feels so much more sinister and evil because it’s so well hidden.
2026-09-22 06:49:48
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Jee :
exactly what I went thru
2026-10-09 05:45:07
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dumplings :
I didn't know. I didn't know until I started recording and journaling. I didn't understand what he was doing this whole time till I could spot it in real time and now I have to unlearn years of my own behavior. years of him doing things like it was love but it was actually control. people dont understand even just getting a bank account in my name I had to fight my own mind because of the doubts he put there. then I had to deal with the fall out when he found out. ive come so far in the year since I open my account. I put a retainer on a lawyer, storage unit, po box, and a car in my name to name off a few but I still feel so small and incapable.
2026-10-07 13:55:45
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Heather Leitzke :
This is only true with an overt narcissist. Nobody ever talks about the inversion of the overt - the covert narcissist. It's an entirely different method from the same root source. A covert narcissist will make the victim appear to be the controlling, manipulative, isolating abuser. And when people like you talk about the overt narc without specifying that they are overt, and that coverts are very different, you give the coverts more fuel for their fire, more leverage and "proof" that they're the victim when they're not. The only thing that has kept me sane in this exact circumstance is firmly holding onto truth, facts, and which one of us lied and employed manipulation tactics. I just wish someone would talk about covert narcissism for a change.
2026-09-22 04:47:42
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Brandie Hansen Severson :
What’s the difference between someone who is an avoidant to someone who is a narc. Just wanting to gain more knowledge during my healing process.
2026-09-22 03:24:41
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fiestyminsk🇦🇺 :
death by 1000 paper cuts
2026-10-02 04:22:10
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johannfswart :
I can vouch for every word you spoke. When I told her I'm filing for divorce, her only reaction was "... yeah, OK." She was flattened. Then, after the divorce was finalyzed, the emotional blackmail started. I then blocked every form of communication. It's been a few years since and today I am leading a happy life without the constant badgering.
2026-09-22 06:53:09
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chrystal blue persuasion :
Are you licensed in multiple states?
2026-09-27 16:28:11
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Pen & Theo 🇦🇺🦘🐨🖤💛❤️ :
Three therapists failed me. They didn’t see the coercive control in my relationship. I’m now leaving a 7 year relationship
2026-09-23 22:15:53
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user9581609749325 :
20 plus years later she has taught my daughters too weaponize my grandchildren. If I am not willing to act as if I am a criminal danger or accept less than human humiliation I don't get to see them. when I stand on my boundaries I just don't care or love them. They say they will never speak with me again but return in 2 to 3 years for another round. Vampires are not so cruel.
2026-09-22 17:51:30
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NTS :
Oh my… that hit hard💔 so so so so true…😥
2026-09-22 06:50:39
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user4744374175040 :
Thinking of enmeshed families when I think of this, how the collective engages in coercive control through roles and punishment when a person tries to leave that role. No autonomy is allowed. Growing up in that system can leave us so confused as to who we are vs navigating something we couldn’t understand.
2026-09-22 13:05:06
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SonsOfThunder :
This guy s how they weaken us and keep us
2026-09-22 08:55:09
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aminahabib8655 :
Wow, you are the first one who described it . You are spot on. This is exactly how it happened to me. 😮😮😱😱🥹
2026-09-22 06:11:26
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AmyLovesPugs :
Happened to me 💯 I lost everything- including myself. Currently enduring post separation legal - financial abuse
2026-09-22 17:52:32
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Tia Engelbrecht :
Like many of us 30+ year's in there is no way out. How do we deal with that?
2026-10-01 01:10:54
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Kerry :
This is happening with my 18 year old son and my ex. My ex can’t do it to me anymore and my son doesn’t even realize it’s happening. How do I help him.
2026-09-23 19:29:05
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🌟~🐦🔥Phoenix🐦🔥~🌟 :
Exactly!!!!
2026-09-22 14:44:33
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tiktok dont stop :
Ty
2026-09-23 07:15:23
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mimi :
I can’t even choose my hair length or color. I can’t choose my weight. I can’t choose my nail colour. nothing.
2026-10-06 15:09:51
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KnitMama :
"I'll take over the bills", " I don't want you to work"... Talking about your friends "Doesn't she get on your nerves?" "She's irritating"... so eventually you somehow don't have any friends. You haven't seen the finances or been working for years. You have no money, no job, no friends
2026-10-08 13:21:21
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Loves_Jesus :
I'm still going through it with my ex after 24 years
2026-09-30 10:23:55
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DejaVoo :
literally exactly the definition of the last 5 yrs of my life
2026-09-22 03:20:49
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Traci Clarke295 :
Facts 💯 never again will I let anyone take my inner peace away 🥳
2026-10-07 19:50:38
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Grandma Shell 🐚 :
it took me 10 years to finally realize I'm being controlled. I'm just learning about this term.
2026-10-04 13:02:25
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