@divinely_elevatedqueens: No one really prepares you for how hard being a single mother can be. There days you are exhausted beyond words, but you keep going because little eyes are watching you. A father can walk away from the relationship but a Child can not walk away from the absence. So expecting a trying mom to be ok with a deadbeat is such misplaced criticism.
The sad part about these issues is, its women who will be telling women to keep quiet
2026-09-22 11:10:05
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Malaila🦋😉 :
And if a man is a deadbeat he is a deadbeat!!! He will probably do that to another woman aswel.. What’s sad is seeing society saying “why bring such on a public platform?” Like??!!!! Why should she be subjected to suffer alone in silence raising 2 kids on her own?
2026-09-23 09:25:15
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🫧Jackie🫧 :
and I saw a post on Facebook saying " bashi mpundu dodged a bullet" I was like what?? y'all laugh at single mothers but don't want to expose the deadbeats?? make it make sense
2026-09-22 16:06:04
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Mutale💙 :
Yes unfortunately our society is very much male centered. And no matter how politely or simply women explain these issues, the conclusion will always be “she’s bitter, still obsessed, a problem, immature” ..and so many more names. As someone with no child nor dead beat baby daddy I’m so tired and frustrated on behalf of women in such situations 😴
2026-09-22 08:11:11
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Thandiwena :
they called her bitter and told her she hasn't healed but failed to call out the man as irresponsible, childish and a bad person. They equate wanting accountability with having feelings for the person which are two separate things.
2026-09-22 12:09:27
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Cleopatra :
I blame the females who raised us including our parents they failed us
2026-09-22 12:46:54
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Kay"* :
As a single parent I would consider it a huge parenting failure on my part if my child ever goes to look for love and affection from a deadbeat. My child will NEVER go to look for him at any point...
2026-09-22 08:07:53
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mimi🥰💞🌺😍 :
they blame who stayed n not the run away...do pipo realize how draining it is to do it all herself.
2026-09-22 12:52:18
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MC BEAUTY STUDIO 💅🎀 :
very true 👏 well said and
as a new generation we should try by all means to raise men who are responsible and who take accountability for their actions at a young age
2026-09-22 11:41:45
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Bee living :
I am bitter and I am not even a single mum. I am in fact child free by choice
2026-09-23 04:03:59
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Kafula Kay 🇿🇲🔥𐙚 𐙚 :
Oh I love her, she’s so blunt
2026-09-22 19:00:05
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Zoe A :
I’m also very glad she’s a smart creator and understands audiences on different platforms, because ku blue app, too many questionable people.. the rest of us understand and support her opinion 🙌🏾
2026-09-24 17:38:29
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Twaambo :
They are asking her to be quiet because them when they are tormented they keep quiet. aah am irritated please! Let her speak please
2026-09-22 10:25:55
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Tabu 💫 :
They are very male centered .
2026-09-22 12:09:14
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PHIRI ♥️♥️ :
in this generation we are going to tell our children the truth.
2026-09-23 05:04:24
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Viemba christie :
Mwandi the backlash from women was pathetic. I saw a comment from a divorced woman I know, who has been dragging her husband to court for child support Bash Dr Kunda, I almost called her out. Most of us women are so fake & it's sad. Dead beat father's destroy children's self esteem, they ruin their mental health and more, so why not talk about it? awe mwandi banamayo bamofye.
2026-09-22 20:52:16
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Kema :
I like how you speak
2026-10-06 07:26:05
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Sparka❤️👌🇿🇲 :
I have made a decision to cut ties with mine...bcoz its draining, talking about it helps others to learn too...My child will be told the truth ...period.
2026-09-22 12:01:09
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Nataizya❤👑 :
you right!
2026-09-22 06:00:39
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Chabala CSN :
Tell me why it's okay for a man to be an irresponsible Father but they still clap for him for showing up when the child is grown up.. Awee we are telling this generation the truth. It's not even about being bitter
2026-09-24 22:29:53
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gertrudechirwa967 :
Agree 💯 true. This is normal. It should be the worse crime and a big fine should enforced. This children are damaged foever. One this is a sin. why abandon your blood and fresh?
2026-09-24 11:30:38
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OKJR 👌 :
Should her life centre around a deadbeat dad really? it's okay to hold us men accountable but again at what point does one become a deadbeat dad...?
2026-09-23 08:15:54
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user1805465820146 :
but our court will grant that man the access mwandi sure
2026-09-23 09:59:57
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user663367054 :
Dr very strong woman let us be supporting of our fellow woman pls
2026-09-25 10:47:22
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Tehillah💎🦋 :
The way I love her she is so motivating
2026-09-22 22:53:25
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