@zoelim_oe: Heard a radio talk asking whether couples would be okay with AA (go-Dutch) before or after marriage, and honestly my first thought was... how is that even realistic? 😆 It'll get SO calculative — next thing you know, I give birth so my husband also has to give birth? Lol. For us, we never actually 'divided' anything. It just happened naturally — he covers housing loan, utilities, and kids' education, I handle household needs, diapers, milk formula, and groceries since I do the Friday run. No spreadsheet, no 50/50, and he ends up covering the bigger part 🥹 It just works for us. How do you and your partner split it — AA, or does one naturally take more? Drop it below!

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Tuesday 22 September 2026 06:50:51 GMT