“Doing things the right way” doesn’t seem to get anyone anywhere any more. You have someone like your husband who doesn’t break the law , pays his taxes, does EVERYTHING right. & you still get screwed. I really don’t understand our system.
2026-09-22 12:13:05
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Shell81💙 :
Prayers ! We started the process in 2017 and finally in April we had the appointment and was approved. I am praying for you and your family. We are living in horrible times and unfortunately I don’t think it will get any better until we get a new administration
2026-09-22 15:28:48
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Sydney ziad :
Praying for you and yours. We need better.🥰🥰🥰
2026-09-24 13:31:46
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Virginia Rodriguez :
exactly right agreed
2026-09-24 21:41:40
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Rachel Kessler :
I’m so sorry!!
2026-09-24 12:25:54
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Kali Akana :
HEAVY on.... "their privileged as$ pedestals"
2026-09-22 15:27:21
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🥑Melissa🥑 :
Same here my son and his wife did everything right and now they they have stuck in Juarez she was approved but they are holding her visa
2026-09-22 20:19:34
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Jenniw68 :
my heart goes out to you. Can I ask why they are canceling the appointments?
2026-09-22 21:27:50
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HBIC :
My heart hurts for you and Rico it’s not fair I can see the hurt frustration in your eyes and I hate it I am so sorry girl 😭 the government is just trash it really is 😩
2026-09-22 11:57:04
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✨ Yolanda Jo ✨ :
Yeah it’s a joke, we started in 2016. My husband has done the physical twice, our I-130 has been approved for years and we are still waiting for a final hearing…….. but all we have to do is wait. 🥴
2026-09-22 12:36:59
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Katie :
I’m so sorry. I’m so mad for you. Sending you love
2026-09-22 18:13:20
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Eclipse Smith :
jodi, my heart goes out to you. I can't possibly begin to understand the hardships you're going through right now. I wish I could be there to help you, to raise my voice and fight for you and Rico. I'm still fighting for my divorce, almost two months later, but compared to what you're going through, my stuff is the blink of an eye. I will be praying for your sanity, for you and Rico to have the kind of life you both deserve, and for you and your family's health and safety. I'm always just a dm away if you need someone to vent to. you are strong girl, stronger than anyone else I know.
2026-09-23 00:40:06
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🇲🇽 KORAL MATA 🇺🇸 :
My heart breaks for you and your beautiful family !!!!! Please don't lose hope don't lose faith !!!!!! 🙏🏻 God has your back !!!
2026-09-24 13:59:35
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NewPerson :
I’m so sorry, I can’t imagine how it feels. I know I would lose my shit. People really don’t realize the struggle we are in trying to do things the right way and always being thrown a new roadblock 😩
2026-09-24 01:34:42
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Attorney Martinez :
Im so sorry
2026-09-22 16:50:58
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Lisa Garcia :
I hate that; just do it the right way because we do. I want that appointment, but then sometimes I don't with this government.because of the dodo in the white house
2026-09-22 19:57:57
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NurseLee :
Sending love and light ❤️❤️❤️❤️
2026-09-23 10:36:08
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RiRI_HerNandy :
Hey friend don’t cry . 🥰
2026-09-23 17:15:21
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Amandita :
😔 I understand how you feel amiga, I’m upset for you and all of going through this. I’m going on 8 yrs and now have to wait another 4 with my husband in Mexico. So much money spent and still giving to do it the “right way” It’s taking a toll on all of our lives that are going through this. Praying for you guys to get another appointment sooner then later 🙏🫂🫂
2026-09-22 14:36:43
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sharlee :
I’m so sorry…🙏 you get another appointment. People will never understand unless they’re also in a marriage with an immigrant 🙄
2026-09-22 18:59:28
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betteronmyown :
Oh love my heart breaks for you. My husband is in Ice detention right now awaiting deportation and it's killing me. Sending love and hugs. This was supposed to be your day and the mf government took it away from you.
2026-09-22 21:57:01
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Patina Ghia :
What is happening now is awful and is definitely not “fixing the system”. It’s garbage. So sorry.
2026-09-22 17:02:08
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Coraima :
My mom waited 21+ years. Finally gets the appointment and it gets held back due to medical exam. Waits the 9 weeks and gets put on administrative process and we sent the documents that were missing then the shut down happened. She’s stuck in Mexico. She’s had to do the medical exam twice..paid twice. Paid lawyers so much money and now we can’t even get an answer but just wait. She’s been there since the end of May. Broke my heart to get on a plane to come back home and leave her. My heart breaks for everyone going through this. 😔 “doing things the right way” and still getting punished for it.
2026-09-23 06:41:07
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T.J. 🐦🔥 :
my gawds. When my husband (RIP) applied in 2003 it took 8 months from arrival in the country to green card. Your feelings and a massive crash out is absolutely valid. many hugs. I am so sorry
2026-09-22 20:35:30
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ofeliacc4 :
I understand everything you are going through it makes you feel
2026-09-23 01:15:13
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