@chyna_mokoena: Dear Whoever’s listening- EP. 10 : We are so used to toxicity that healthy love feels scary & I struggle with that too. All of this feels too good to be true, coz I am used to being hurt & disappointed thst healthy love feels like they are pretending, Someone communicates with us, and we’re waiting for the day they suddenly disappear. Someone treats us gently, and we’re wondering when the switch is going to happen. Someone reassures us, and instead of receiving it, we’re looking for the hidden meaning behind it. It’s a bad habit & I am learning to be able to receive love without feeling scared to lose it . #DearWhoeversListening #yappingsession

Smangaliso Matinyane :

speak louder🥹🚶‍♂️

Nathanrsa28 :

I started seeing your videos today and all of them makes me reflect on my previous situation and honestly you are right. seems like I'm going to camp here. you already have a fan

mee :

when you get hurt so much you just get num and your walls triple keeping any and every love from reviving it , you'll never be the same again

gosiemdlulie :

Sad reality ,sometimes consistent love feels to good to be trusted😭😭

faded dept. :

my love “we” ?😂

Enough 💫🙇🏻‍♂️ :

keep on going we like what you are telling ❤️❤️

🧸 :

Earned yourself a follower.💕

Christian :

begin a YouTube channel I'm starting to relate more to youu

Khusha Sick Simba :

like life is achain of being hurt past boyfriends or girlfriend is probably hurting someone and we blame it on gender relationship got stages that's what we don't notice if you don't feel me why you playing me .nurturing love is like having a child to grow and leave you with nothing or to thorn u

Angella Sepamla :

Louder Please 😭🫵🏼🫂!!!!!!!

B🦋💙 :

i turned a guy who loved me geniunely down because i always have room for disappointments in my heart after being disappointed by some i loved wholeheart........i regret it now 😭😭🤞

Mpho-Entle💌 :

This one is a little too real for me😔😭it’s all new and I don’t know how to respond to love that is consistent, eish we’ve been through a lot man😔🙇🏽‍♂️

Deejay🫶🔥🤏 :

Reason why we get hurt is because we wanna relate with other relationships😩

ka._.kaku :

dammmm ur talking my thoughts out loud ,,,,at this point am gonna end up watching all of ur videos coz bottling up my thoughts might kill me but thanks so much for speaking them out loud

Jay thee Alchemist 💙 :

The hurt knows how it feels to be hurt the expected one knows the disappointment of expectation.. Pain is unavoidable no matter what but people don't know when they are loved genuinely because they got hurt they learned not to trust hence when the realest love finds them they push it away because the couldn't accept it because pain is what led to where they are now . Love to be loved and choose to be loved

fifi :

volume on this 🤧✋🏽

M🕸 :

Why are you right 😔💔. I have been hurt so much to the point where i don't have expectations & already convince that am going to get disappointed at the end like i don't even believe someone when they come with pure intentions i just say they're lying but i can't blame myself am just tired of being hurt hle😭😭

Lucky Takudzwa Banhu 👍 :

This is wisdom

Linda-Celloh :

try falling in love with avoidant. you will find changing the kfc menu trying to make your life make sense

𝑭𝒆𝒓𝒓𝒂𝒓𝒊. 🐎 :

SCREWTHEWORLD :

You talking to me😭😭

Calvin M :

we live in a world whereby people treat love and relationships like contacts that need to be fulfilled

RAVAZZOTTI :

You are so on point,I like the fact that you address issues(relevancy)....across the border. Humbled

@Cap_T.k :

And it hurts when you fall in love with someone who's from a toxic relationship and she still carries the trauma and it becomes hard for her to open up and it damages us and don't wanna lose her 🤞😫she's my world, my breath of love ♥️eish...

duskie :

You speak facts