@anxiouslyalej: Everything you admire about her is paid for in the boundaries you will never see. Hundreds of small decisions, made over and over, until her external reality caught up and now you can't help but notice. She has mastered the ability to observe everything, react to nothing, and then move accordingly. She does not waste a second trying to change another person, because every attempt to change or control someone makes you uglier. She minds her business and she lets people F around and find out. And when somebody crosses a line, there is a cost. You're not paying next week, you're paying right NOW, in the loss of access and in the way she removes herself. She knows her absence cuts deeper than anything she could ever say, because a boundary is nothing more than controlling where your energy goes. At the core of it, she is just a woman who continues to choose herself again and again, even when it's hard. That is what makes her identity magnetic. She runs a strict program. If you want to learn how, Link in bio for 1:1 coaching & masterclass! If this is you, repost it and let it say exactly what it says about you. And if you know a woman like this, send it to her. Keywords: strict program, boundaries for women, self worth, dating advice for women, relationship psychology, emotional regulation, secure attachment, how to set boundaries, high standards in dating, self respect, nervous system regulation, magnetic woman, dating coach for women #shesstrict #boundaries #feminineenergy #womensdatingadvice #datingforwomen

Ci Ci :

I love your videos

DancingQUEEN40 :

I won't compromise my standards because I know that everything I want in life exists.

rachelextraordinaire :

It’s me ❤️💃

Steph :

This is perfectly stated. Thank you for the light. 💯

GEMINI GODDESS♊👸 :

A regulated Nervous system is Everything

sarahkcode :

Preach! I want to listen to this 100 times a day!!!

𝓛𝓪𝓾𝓻𝓮𝓷 𝓥𝓲𝓭𝓪𝓼 :

Unwavering identity alignment, energetic boundaries and a regulated nervous system will make you the woman of your OWN dreams.

dan_12345_i :

I was forced to fawn and let adult relatives disrespect me as a kid, now the price for learning how to set boundaries in my late 20s is very high.

MysticTopaz :

I am relearning this now that I’m out of my toxic relationship

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I enjoy your content

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AMEN GIRL!!!!

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Great piece

Andreea Pălimariu :

I want to believe all my work made me this type of woman.

Mellicent :

LOVE THIS!

ShanelRealEstates :

True

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Katia :

absolutely love this

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Jennifer Stone :

Great post!

the_duchess_mel :

Wow preach. Love everything about this post.

Silvie;) :

It’s a great self control and reminding yourself daily what you tolerate and what not.

Melissa :

You had me until “intentionality” 😬 It’s just “intention”

Cheyenne :

I am 100% unapologetically that woman! 🫡 💁🏽‍♀️👏🏾

Ty :

this!!